It's been about a week and still haven't heard. If didn't want to be with me why couldn't he just tell me that. Just up and leaving is just stupid.
2007-03-12 15:58:39 · 8 answers · asked by friend 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So the guy doesn't want to be with you any more and he's an a**hole? Maybe you could be the problem, did you ever stop to think of that? I mean, if a guy was happy with you he wouldn't make himself scarce. Maybe it's time for you to do some personal inventory and see what's wrong with you.
2007-03-12 16:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend,
Men aren't ***'es! You just knew one that you weren't compatible with and maybe you said something or acted a way that made him shy away and it hurt your pride.
You have to give people a chance!
Listen, 1 week isn't THAT much gone by to give up about since you didn't hear from the guy! He could be busy! Maybe he has a full time job, and or School! 1 week is nothing to FRET over! I'd say if you were sitting around a month and didn't get a call from him, then he LONG brushed you off! Give it more time, ok?
You can always call or email him and ask him if there was something you said previously, etc. and tell him that you wondered if he was ok and ask him to go out again. He's gonna say one way or the other! Don't give up!
2007-03-12 23:17:45 · answer #2 · answered by julesrules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
got that right, cause these type of men are arseholes and we give em the power to be arseholes, we should just move on and show em you dont give a flying about em thats the best medicine, when my bf left me and i told him i have someone else, well he went of and now hes stalkin me or tryin something to make me jealous lol as if, if its been a week and nothing you have ya answer tell him its over and move on you deserve better, these men piss me off think their gods gift to women and emotional abuse us stuff em, dont show em you care, dont contact him just go on with ya life and still have that hope you will find a decent guy cause we deserve it, these men need to be put in their place. us women need to be stronger when it comes to men, men feel they have the power over us well no they dont we have the power to show em the door and some day they will be as lonely and regret it
2007-03-12 23:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by MOVIE BUFF 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are not a**hole they just don't know what they are doing if they do then they still are not a**hole they are not the type for you they need to be gay then no girl will get hurt so for get him and move on
2007-03-12 23:04:17 · answer #4 · answered by life_hater_forever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe that guy was insecure or he really liked you or maybe he was scared to commit more in any way like keeping up your friendship and maybe your boyfriend, but yeah some guys are a$$holes, and i'm sorry, but just move on you could do better, than him if he did that....
2007-03-12 23:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by yayme_denae 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he needed a break ( a real long one..), after that hectic week with u.
2007-03-12 23:07:17 · answer #6 · answered by pinu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried calling him and seeing whats up?? Maybe he is waiting for you to call??
2007-03-13 01:10:21 · answer #7 · answered by mysweetluvie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no wonder why no one wants you. you have a shittty attitude.
2007-03-12 23:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by canadians_are_imbeciles1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋