should be?! I met a lady who was my waitress. I was not interested in her at all. I just talked a little bit and I genuinely got to know her as she brought our drinks to the table. My buddy who was with me said, Dude you gonna ask her out or what she is like all about you?! I didnt notice because I was just havin a relaxin time. But when she came back. I took my friends advice. I asked if she would like to go drinking sometime she responded "Absolutely!" so she then tells me the peoples she works with are going to a bar on sun nite around 8 or 9 ( this was a thur afternoon) I agreed to go and she gave me her number! When I left she said I'll see u on sunday. I said ok. Well sat evening after a long work nite I stopped in for 1 drink. I wasnt lookin for her. She was there and she approached me. we talked casually. and she said she would see me that next nite
2007-03-12 15:36:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok i said and left. I didnt anymore than 15 min. well sun nite came and went I went to the bar and she wasnt there when she said she would be, I found out later she was there at 11 that nite. so I called her today (This was all last week) and she didnt seem like she wanted to talk. she said she was real busy. so ladies whats up?
why give me your number if you dont want to hang out. why say yeah absolutely u wanna go out then act like a freakin squirrly girl when I call u? please what should I do next
2007-03-12 15:40:02 · update #1
ladies ladies ladies!
I DID show up the time SHE said but she wasnt there!!!
I called her the next day and She said she was to busy to talk
Im wondering why give me the number if you are just gonna freak out and bail on me if u didnt like me
2007-03-12 15:46:36 · update #2
Well she might have been busy for real. At least you went there and she wasn't, so u have nothing to feel bad about it or feel like a jerk. If she calls make sure she knows that u did go there and than see how it goes. Good luck.
Since you think we are confusing pls give me a guys opinion (guys are not that easy to deal with either ) on my posting bc is just like yours :) I posted today under the same category ,
"Need to understand what is going on. Guys need to say it the way it is?" Search for this question
Thanx
2007-03-12 16:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa! that was fast! your relationship when from 0 to 90 in 1 drink. even i'm not that good.
ok then, right now you are on the border line of make it or break it. my next move would be getting to know this women better. maybe you should take her out to dinner and find out what you have in common.
good luck!
2007-03-12 22:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by cajin_dreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, did you show up on Sun? Did she? If she didn't something you did changed her mind. Try going back with your friend and see what happens. Maybe something came up and there is a logical answer.
2007-03-12 22:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ofie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's assuming that you're really into her. Don't give wrong signals if you don't really like her. Dating is fun, it could lead to something serious or not. As long as it clears to the both of you what are your intentions to her then there is no harm in getting in the game of dating.
2007-03-12 22:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by icene_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go and meet her if I were you. Even if you have no interest in her for anything more than a friend still go, no one can have too many friends! Who knows, maybe she could end up being your soul mate!
2007-03-12 22:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by melody g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's expecting to see you again (after all you did make a date for that night, right?)and if that's what you want you should see her if not tell her you'd rather not.
2007-03-12 22:42:38 · answer #6 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..? Isn't it obvious?? GO OUT WITH HER!!!!!!!!...even if you don't like her that much, be courteous...don't be a jerk and not show up. If the night doesn't work out for you then you don't have to see her again, but don't bail out when you've already said you'd go...that's just mean.
2007-03-12 22:41:59 · answer #7 · answered by May 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure, but maybe she changed her mind? Or she had better things to do! Move on and forget about it. Her loss.
2007-03-12 22:44:14 · answer #8 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay so it sounds like she is giving you the run around but wait she could be genuinely busy...The ball is in her court now, so wait for her to call you...Dont call her...Good Luck ;)
2007-03-12 22:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by The TrutH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she thinks you blew her off.
2007-03-12 22:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋