so this guy has said and acted like he Really liked me for just over a month now.. and he told me just a few days ago he Really liked me, and all that stuff. but then the day we are supposed to go on our 2nd date he intentionally blew me off and i had to text him to see if he was okay.. and he just said i don't think things are going to work out i don't know why but i don't like you like that i don't know what happened i like someone else. and then i talked with him about it for like a second and he just said: i just really like this girl. and he had Just told ME that he really liked me! what happened!!? :S
2007-03-12 15:29:50 · 16 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget him, guys that bounce like that isn't worth your time. A guy friend once told me that they categorize girls (subconciously into categories) and the only way taht you'd know that HE really likes you is not about what he says but to what extent he is willing to go to show that he likes you... He told me that if a guy just shows up from time to time and not really pursues you--- then he is still out there testing the waters and seeing who else will bite.
if he acts really cool around you, and is kinda smooth with words... he may not really be serious at all. When guys are nervous (have you watched the movie HITCH?)-- the more they blundder up, the more they like you (i guess i think its partially true)... so if a guy blows you off.... don't think of it negatively, i'd say your pretty lucky cause you didn't even start something with someone that could have just played you.
2007-03-12 15:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by fairydust_n_drums 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahh, my little daffodil, you have so much to learn. It is obvious that you are both young and he simply has found someone he likes better than you. It's cool though because no matter how much you like this guy, it would only be a matter of time before you guys would have broken up anyway. As you grow older and experience things in life you will learn that boyfriends will come and boyfriends will go. That's just the way life goes. The thing you have to learn is just to enjoy your youth and move on. Forget that zero and get you a hero. In other words, you must realize that it is his loss and you can rest assured that somewhere down the line you will encounter an even handsomer stud that is going to love you and appreciate you for the sweet person you are. Peace and God bless.
2007-03-12 22:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by cave man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself lucky! He might be having some real issues like bipolarism or he might just be a complete jerk. He might have had a gf and then she found out about it and he had to do that. You never know. Just consider yourself lucky, move along and keep your head up and find someone who is less prone to drama. You deserve to be treated better than that and if he can't be a man, you certainly don't want to date an immature little boy.
2007-03-12 22:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by hoangnkarina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people just don't listen: If someone shows you who they are or how they feel, Believe them!! He answered your question, he really likes this other girl and even if he does like you do you want to deal with future problem of him cheating on you with this girl he already told you he really likes?!
2007-03-12 22:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by Khalil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a player...he took you on one date to see if he could get anywhere...I guess he didn't think he could get anywhere fast so changed stories. Move on, he's a jerk. Go out there and find yourself a keeper. Good luck! =]
2007-03-12 22:36:09 · answer #5 · answered by May 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey it sounds like the first date didn't work for him. This is his way of letting you down easy.
2007-03-12 22:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by mikeae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He changed his mind. Maybe, he wasn't as interested as he thought he was or something better came along. Who cares because you have better things to do. Move on and forget about him.
2007-03-12 22:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like I think the answer is like he just likes everybody. He like thought he liked you. Then he like met someone else. Now he likes her also. It's like crazy or something....
2007-03-12 22:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by FarOut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like an excuse, sounds like he just found someone else. SORRY
2007-03-12 22:33:30 · answer #9 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys had gone out on A date, one date. thats all it was. you didnt get married ! there are gonna be alot of ONE dates . sorry.
2007-03-12 22:38:49 · answer #10 · answered by privateone 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋