my bf hasn't talked to me for a week. usually he calls ever night and is online to chat. should i be mad at him because he wont awnser his phone or talk to me?
2007-03-12 15:26:24 · 16 answers · asked by Kitty Kat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This doesnt sound good. I would call him to "check in" and see what he is doing. I dont want to assume but he might be with another woman cause going from calling everyday to nothing is kinda weird. Are you sure he is not on vacation?
2007-03-12 15:30:37 · answer #1 · answered by Robbi p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a pretty broad question that depends on many factors. 1. Does he know that not talking to you for a week would bother you? If he does know that then I would think he is either playing games to get a reaction, or that he is trying to break up with you. Either way, it is very disrespectful for your bf to do something that he knows would hurt you or make you mad. 2. Are there problems in his life that you may or may not be aware of? He could be going through something right now where he doesn't feel like he can talk to you about it. I'd say that is most likely not the case as he appears to not even answer your phone calls. To me, he is being downright disrespectful and I would get rid of him. If he wants to play his little games, don't play into them buy calling him anymore.
2007-03-12 22:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by Kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok no dont be mad you should confront him and talk to him and if hes cheating on you for some reason dump his sorry *** and if he crawls back take him back but dont just let things be the way the were u kind of have to go backwards a little bit in the relationship like if you 2 had sex often only have sex with him like once every 2 weeks or 3 or something like that just punshin him a little for not answering his cell but never get mad for something like that because that is the stupidest thing to get mad about.
2007-03-12 22:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by imposbledragon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG i had the EXACT same problem and now its resolved i was mad at the time so its normal if you are too and what happened was he was grounded from using the phone and his internet wasnt wroking but than it was so he was on chat so i just talked to him todaii so theres nothing to be worried about maybee something is going on with him at home or something so dont worry dont jump to conclusions and for all i know maybee he went on vacation with his parents somewhere who knows hunn but if you really need to get a hold of him go to his house and try telling him to come out for the movies or w/e
GOOD luck:D
2007-03-12 22:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by CleoDarling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be mad.
It's been a week. Call him and ask what he's been up to.
EDIT:
I felt that my boyfriend was also ignoring me. So I was venting to his best friend (also my friend). Well my boyfriend didn't like that. His best friend got him to call me. I don't know if he was going to willingly call me or not... but the point is, he did. We talked for almost an hour and everything is resolved now.
You should call him and ask him what he's been up to. You can also mention that he hasn't said a word to you or picked up his phone in A WEEK. Tell him you felt hurt. If he really likes you, he will consider your feelings and he'll be willing to work it out.
2007-03-12 22:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both boys are like toddlers there learning and they need to be taught a lesson be mad so he knows it when he gets the point talk to him about it
2007-03-12 22:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by leeann h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea. unless he's upset about something he should be able to talk to you. when he starts getting too busy to call you and doesnt call you more often then he does you should have a talk with him. boys do that sometimes it's really dumb.
2007-03-12 22:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by k123 x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miss it sounds like he could be mad at you. Did you miss his birthday? Or maybe your anniversary? Or some important date in your relationship?
If so send him an I MISS YOU CARD!!!!!!!! Trust me it works for guys.
2007-03-12 22:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by mikeae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm yes, your his girlfriend you should be a priority. Talk to him and tell him your mad and if he won't talk to you you should break up with him.
2007-03-12 22:29:35 · answer #9 · answered by Emilyy<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he a teenager? sounds like it.
if you are dating someone, they should be in contact with you. and vise versa. why hasn't he called?
leave him alone, or dump him. he's not paying attention to you anyway, so why stalk him?
2007-03-12 22:30:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋