just ask a whole bunch of questions like anything....play 20 questions.....it'll prob. start a conversation like a story that happend to u or somthing ..good luck... ;)
2007-03-12 15:29:23
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answered by simplyerika08 2
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I would say that if she is not interested in you then I would just back off.
Randomly meeting women online is sometimes a tough situation, to me it seems like you are trying to get to know her and go out, or something along those lines. If she isn't giving you much information or a picture I would say that she seems uninterested.
Although there are many great places to meet people online, it is very tough and women (much more then men) are usually fairly hesitant of random conversations, especially if they are uninterested and the man seems very interested (a lot of women get freaked out easy).
I would keep with the small talk and see what she is interested in, if she isn't giving you any positive signs I would just move on and leave her be, no sense in trying to force her to talk to you and a connection to be there.
Best of luck.
2007-03-12 15:38:21
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answered by Anonymous
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Only listening improves conversation and agreement helps also. Try talking about what you enjoy so you are knowledgeable in your comments. Women don't think normal from a male point of view but the reverse is also true. We are different but women aren't stupid. Blowing smoke and being fake is bad no matter male or female so be honest. What impresses women most, I think, is kindness.Next to that is money
2007-03-12 15:37:52
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answered by Anonymous
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well i'm a girl and read this.....you should ask her some easy questions on the topic you want to know about her. lets say it doesnt say her name, you could ask her questions. Also, just keep it flowing like talk about a topic that is interesting to both of you. Whenever i talk to my boyfriend on aim we always talk about like how we like each other, when we should get together and much more. So when she says that see has to go .....you need to say hold on for just a minute, and sometimes it works but sometimes it doesnt cause sometimes they really have to go!!!!
~Best of Wishes~
2007-03-12 15:31:44
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answered by Anonymous
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funny thing, i have the same problem hahahaha
well, from what i have learned is, go deeper into the conversations and ask more about why she would answer that way. lets say if she likes tennis or something, ask her how long she has been playing and what kind of racquet she has.
2007-03-12 15:30:42
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answered by Osphronemus G 3
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talk about totally useless things. and they'll think you're the most intelligent person in the world, and online chicks love intelligent men. I don't know why it works, but it does.
2007-03-12 15:34:58
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answered by The Machine 2
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(If at Yahoo chat) Dont just im her, get to know her in the public room then ask her if she minds. Then be honest, talk about the non personal things until she becomes more comfortable with you. And if she ignores you move on.
2007-03-12 15:30:37
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answered by say_tay 4
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Well, if worst comes to worst, jot down notes of what topics you would like to talk about.
Ex: family, books, tv shows, movies, etc.
2007-03-12 15:29:31
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answered by wall_flower 2
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don't act like a pig. don't insult. and most importantly dont say scary things that scare people away!
2007-03-12 15:28:27
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answered by monchicha 2
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Discuss your quilted sham collection.
2007-03-12 15:28:18
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answered by Nitz Frugent 6
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