Ok, so this guy who I have known all my life, we grew up together (I'm 18, he's 21), Ive kind of liked him since, pretty much when he got his braces off when he was 13! Ive never really said anything because we were little and it was weird and boys had cooties! But the cooties have gone away and he's this amazing adorable sweet guy. We've recently started talking again,our families are really close,and I think Ive fallen for him, but I dont know what to do. I dont want to screw it up, I would wait forever for this man if it took that! But I dont want to go forever and he doesnt know how I feel. And I dont really know if he likes me, when I used to go to his house and when I left he'd make me get out of my car and say goodbye to him face to face, and when we still talk he waits for me to say bye before we hang up on the phone or one of us gets off online. We've both dated other people though so that's where Im not sure if he likes me or if he's just the nice family friend. What do I do?
2007-03-12 15:16:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your story is so sweet baby, I think you two belong together. The best thing to do is to ask him directly if he only likes you as a very good friend, or there is a chance for something more. If you are not comfortable doind that, you can always tell your parents to tell his parents to ask him how does he feel about you. Good luck!
2007-03-12 15:23:34 · answer #1 · answered by European in IN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had another good friend you could ask them to ask the guy you like if he likes you...but if I were you I'd just come out and say it or write him a note or something. Take note of how he reacts to the girls he dates. Does he act like he cares or does he seem like he just really wants to get away from them? Then again, what do I know, this isn't my problem =)
2007-03-12 22:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by cinnabuns_09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he probably sees you as the little girl he grew up with. But you should tell him how you feel and just take a risk.If he doesn't feel the same, just say u still want to be friends. Good luck
2007-03-12 22:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going out on a date like to the park or somewhere you're alone.
2007-03-12 22:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by Khalil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he like you? ... Yes
How can you tell? ... Ask him
"...he'd make me get out of my car and say goodbye to him face to face..." There it is , the clincher!
2007-03-12 22:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by nostromobb 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually he just called and told me he loves me and that he's not that into you. Guess you should move on.
2007-03-12 22:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by Misty Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's so close to you, you should be able to talk to him about this!
2007-03-12 22:18:59 · answer #7 · answered by Charissa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋