wat do guys look for in a girl?

Question

im kind of emo goth but not all dark and evil kind of thing
but everyone seems to think im a freak so wat do u look for in a girl cuz i know i need to change if i ever want to be noticed

Answer 1

You really shouldn't need to change. you won't be happy with whoever you get if you changed to get them. If you are rooted in your emo, goth sort of ways then there is no reason to change that to accommodate someone else. I know there is an urge to change yourself to be more universally appealing, but in the end you won't feel satisfied and you won't know who you are or who you are looking for. One of the most important things in life is to discover who you are, and this seems like a good time for you. Try things, see what you like, if you find something you like more than what you've got now, change it, other wise keep it.

To answer your question, guys are looking for a girl who feels comfortable in her own skin and with her own personality. i.e. one that doesn't constantly ask questions like, "does this dress make me look fat?" Guy's hate that question because if we answer it either way, we either get slapped, or you don't believe us. We may not seem like it, but guys really want a girl with her own personality, someone we can actually carry on an argument, not just a conversation but also an argument.

RECAP: Be yourself and you will find someone that you will be happier with that if you tried to be someone else.

It took me so long to type this that I bet everything I just said has been said before me, but I said it and I beleive it.

Answer 2

Well if people don't like your appearance and it bothers you then you could revamp the way you think and change your persona ,,,, Start looking something like a human that doesn't look dead ,,,, The only ones that you are going attract are bums that are into the same thing ,,,, They are no one to look at and expect a future with ,,,, Their brain works ******** because their head is not screwed on right ,,,, especially those ones that walk around bald headed except for those spikes of hair sticking straight up ,,,, What's an emo any way ? ,,,,

Answer 3

Hay you dont have to worry about being noticed. I mean if what u say is true people already think your weird so they do notice you. But in a girl i look for a supporter. a sweet kind family lovin girl. Has only a few demons. And is really easy on the eyes. And if she is athletic that's always a plus. No affiance for what i said earlier but u know its true. Hope that helps. Good luck.

Answer 4

They will find you if they are right for you they will find you . Trust me you will grow out of the goth thing i did and i was the outcast at my school my name was satan and kurt cobain angel as in his hell angel! BUt you will find out that it is very important in order for people to give you respect you have to show them you want ti and your darkness will fade from your body. Just know you wont find this fad so important later on down the road and you will laugh at it. It is sexy But there is a time and a place for it.

Answer 5

guys look for a good personality, cuteness, intellegence. appearance is everything as well. so if you dress the emo/goth way, you come off as the emo/goth stereotype. im not saying go buy expensive clothes and go all preppy, thats ridiculous. try a new look.

Answer 6

We look for kind girls who don't lie. Who are honest. Who actually CARE about the other person, as opposed to caring about them because they like them and thus it works in their favor. I'd like to date any type of girl, as long as she is kind and honest, etc. Except now I don't trust women, because of the very reason listed above. Oh well, good luck.

Answer 7

Uh i like a girl who wears bright colors because it shows they are unique and take risks but...

Who they hang out with is the biggest thing since you can tell alot about a person from who they choose to hang with

Answer 8

Self confidence, sense of humor, and intelligence. Without those, you won't attract any type of guy you'd want to have. Good luck!

Answer 9

Just oneday surprise everybody and change your whole style up!!! and if you like the attention you get then just kind of mix that style with your normal style/personality.....just show people who you are and let them see that you can work it too!!! Dont be afraid to do it up different....To me it's like you gotta do what you gotta do!!!!

Answer 10

lmao well the number one thing is be yourself if you try to be somthing else the liklyhood is who you attract is only attracted to what you are trying to be. if a person dosn't accept you for who you are then there not worth it any way lol.