There's this guy....(Girls i need your help)?

Question

So there's this guy that just came to my school at the beggining on February and i really like him...like alot....he's just the kind of guy i like! but he has a girlfriend. I know that he likes me too and he knows that i like him.He told my friend that i be Flirting with him and that he be trying hard not to...you know cheat on his girlfriend or watever...and i'm like why can't you just break up with her so we can be together...

but i never really told him that i like him but any guy could tell...and he also told my friend that him and his girlfriend are having problems....soooooo is this my green light?!?!?! What to do??? should i just forget about him and just go on with life and quit waiting around for him to come to his senses???? or should i just do what i have to do to get my man?!?!?
***PLEASE HELP ME LADIES** OR GUYS

Answer 1

You probably aren't going to like this but you sound like a very selfish and self centered person but you'd better take time to think about something ,,,,
Take note of what he's doing with his present girlfriend ,,,, Or behind her back ,,,, If he's doing this stuff to her then he's just as capable of doing the same thing to you when he gets tired of you and someone else is like "why can't he just break up with her so me and him can be together " Young guys his age don't use their heads ,,,, they let their glands do their thinking for them ,,,, That's all they worry about ,,,, When their brain is in this state of heat all they can think about is what they want ,,,,, They will do or say anything they have to get what they want ,,,, They are too wrapped in lust to even think about things like love or respect or any of the more important things that would normally lead up to intimacy ,,,, They are just hot to get to the sex part and to hell with anything else ,,,, Another thing you might want to think about is would you appreciate some one else breaking the two of you up if you were in the place his girlfriend is in now ?? ,,,, Remember you asked the question or thought about it where you said to yourself " Why can't he just break up with her so we can be together" ??
Allot of times what goes around comes around and pay back can be a real bitchh sometimes ,,,,
And he should take notes where you are concerned too ,,,, he should be thinking about just what kind of a person you are that you'd be a part of something like this and if he'd really want someone that would stoop that low to get what she wants ? ,,, But you shouldn't really have to worry about that ,,,, His mind is probably still stuck in the lust rut and hasn't or can't get past that ,,,, Who knows ,,,, Maybe the two of you deserve each other ,,, Maybe the X girlfriend might be the one that's better off and she will be the only one that ,,,, " comes to her sences ",,,, after it's done and over with ,,,,

Answer 2

I was and still am in this same situation.The guy that I like is with another girl,but we still flirt sometimes.He calls me sweety and cutie and babe every now and then.I hate the fact that I like him whenever he has a girlfriend,but I didnt choose to fall for him.I'm the type of girl that will not date until she gets the guy that she wants or until that guy that she wants makes her cry enough to where she refuses to cry anymore.I havent reached that point yet in my 'friendship".Last night me and him had a big argument,and his girlfriend was the main cause of it.I ended up telling him that I hated him,and I really hurt him by saying that.If I were you,I would wait because you cant just automatically quit liking someone,it doesnt work like that.But if he decides to stay with his girlfriend,or does what the guy that I like did,and he decides to not flirt with you or show you the attention that you want,dont go crazy on him.Youll be there for him whenever their at each others throats.Youll see,he'll come crawling back to you in no time.

Answer 3

Id say wait your turn. Your in school and as we all know you will go through MANY guys before you find the "right" one and he will go through MANY girls, its just a matter of time, why rock the boat and make her mad at you they wont last long and then you will have a green light, Question though, if he is flirting with you behind her back what makes you think he wont do the same to you once you are with him.. hummm?

Answer 4

If you do what you have to do to "get your man" and you do get him, someone will probably take him away from you someday too. The answer to your question depends on what you're looking for. If you're looking for a commited relationship, it probably won't work. If you're looking for a boyfriend of the month, I suppose it doesn't really matter what you do. Just keep in mind, if you were the other girl, how would you feel?

Answer 5

Alright i have been in this kind of situation before and i never stop trying to get my man so you aren't going to stop you hear me your not. when u go to school u keep flirting with him if theres no reaction walk of. if he brakes up with his old gf and want's to go out with you, you make sure u play hard to get, hard to get is the best thing but make sure u don't lose him for good. you start pretending your flirting with the other guys to make him jealous but then u go for him good luck xoxoxox

Answer 6

Be careful- there's definitely some sparks flying between you two- but I think that if you make a move on him now- he will think that you have a habit of luring guys away from their girls and he will not trust you- which could damage ur chances of dating him if he ever does break up w/ his current gf. Let him make his own decision, and if it's meant to be than it will be, trust me. :-)

Answer 7

ok...what u do..is you wait to see what happens between him and his gf...(a day or two)...then just forget about him as ur significant other. just think about him as ur friend and it'll seem that he came to his senses..alot quicker than by waiting

Answer 8

if u really like try to get him but don't push him to much. give him time to decide what he wants to do but if he likes u and u like him then he don't need to be dateing another chick but u need to make sure he knows u like him. r else he prouble want dumb this other chick! good luck!!