I need to get child support so I can afford another baby. Would you do it if your really wanted a baby.
2007-03-12 15:02:10 · 20 answers · asked by Proud Mama of 4 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Do you have someone in mind? Lots of people swing that way. Maybe someone in your town will tell you about some kind of swingers club?
Good luck in whatever you decide
God Bless you and your family.
2007-03-12 17:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by Cassie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is wrong. Don't you think that if you did do that -that when the child came out looking like someone else he would know?
If i really wanted a baby then i would be getting pregnant by my spouse.
2007-03-12 22:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I cannot believe you just went there. The court will look at you and tell you that it is your not responsible knowing you are married to have sex with anyone besides your spouse. In different states you may lose your child because of this.. Rare but can happen... I am meaning to parent... and another thing, if you are married, law says that he is automatically the father. You would CHEAT on your spouse for a baby and ruin your family. If you have children you have just ruined there lives because you will constantly be arguing. My husband cheated on me a year ago with a married woman. SHe was telling him she was on the pill and wasn't. Her husband was "fixed" but luckily she didnt get pregnant, my husband brought me home an STD! HPV! This has already turned into something where I have to have surgery in the nesxt couple of weeks... You do know some STDs can make you become sterile and not be able to become pregnant right.... I think you will be messing up some kids likfe and your husbands life if you do this!
AND NOT TO MENTION THAT THERE ARE COURT COST PAID FOR BY THE HONEST PEOPLE IN THE WORLD!!!
2007-03-12 22:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by Megan Michelle 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
if you cant afford another baby, then tryig to have one is a BAD idea.
why do you desperatly wish for another child?
it sound like you lack something in life and are using children to fufill that need. talk to a therapist about it. how every i dont think its wrong to have a baby with someone other that your spouse, just as long as they ok it.
2007-03-12 22:26:16 · answer #4 · answered by Melanie L 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Is this a serious question? It surely can't be.
So the answer to the first question - yes it would be wrong.
The second - no i wouldn't do it because I'm not triflin like you are. If you and your husband can't afford another baby then you shouldn't be havin another baby.
2007-03-12 22:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by gEt In ThE cAr [DaRnIt] 5 · 8⤊ 0⤋
OMG it is women like you that give us all a bad name... how absolutely horrible can a person possibly be? It is 100 % wrong to cheat on your spouse & to do it just to get child support.... you need to be sterilized!!!!!
2007-03-12 22:12:01 · answer #6 · answered by kittycat lover 3 · 9⤊ 0⤋
That would be horribly wrong, and if I was the husband, I would be filing for divorce in a hurry. I'm sorry to be so blunt, but sometimes the truth is best, you know?
2007-03-12 22:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even consider going against your spouse in the first place? It's not rigt. It is VERY WRONG to do something like that.
2007-03-12 22:07:15 · answer #8 · answered by mtoutlaw_87 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Hey, there's nothing wrong with that.... Can you give me your spouse's number cuz, while you're out F***ing another man for his money, I think I'll do the same thing with him, since he'll be all alone...hey, it's basically prostitution, just with a belated payment!!!!
YOU ARE SICK SICK SICK!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-12 22:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by britt g 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
i can't believe you're suggesting this. reading your question, I thought perhaps your hubby was infertile, in which case, I'd suggest a sperm bank. in your case, I'd say why would you even think about cheating? just get a job. even the greeters at wal mart who sit down all day get minimum wage!
2007-03-12 22:07:26 · answer #10 · answered by Sirius's Mommy 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋