What happened here?
I was walking by a car and I noticed that these three guys started laughing as they stared at me when I went by, so I turned back to see what their problem was and then turned back when, then I saw one of them mock me as I moved toward them. So I turned around and went over to the kid in the driver's seat and said "How're you doing. What's up?? We cool?
Then the kid said "What are you talking about?" as if I was making this all up, then I told him "Im just saying when I was walking past, I was going by minding my own business that's all. Have a good day guys.
Nothing else was said, and the third guy standing near the car did not move his head from where he was talking to the kids.
Did they back down? Im not a violent person, but if I can get away with being intimidating to jerks who want to be rude then I will do so.
Did I stand up for myself well, or subconsciously give in to their bullshit?
2007-03-12 14:57:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Kudos! You'll make them think twice about doing it to someone else. Reverse the situation on the bully and put them on the receiving end and they become real quiet, real fast.
2007-03-13 02:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
VERY well done. Thank you from every shy, quiet, put down, abused person in the world.
By the way this gets better as you grow older, it's more fun because you can be a little bit ruder.
2007-03-13 02:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by teacher groovyGRANNY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did well. Rudeness of this sort should always be faced immediately and with tact and grace. You did that.
2007-03-13 09:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by Last Ent Wife (RCIA) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋