okay me and my bf have been dateing a year this sat and i love him very much and would kill for him anyday! he is the love of my life and i don't know how i would get through without him. but for some reason all he ever thinks about his is video game he got it and now he never wants to talk to me on the phone and really don't act like he cares if we spend time together are not. i don't know what do to. im scared im going to lose him. i dont know if its just the game are u is wanting to take a break. i feel like the video game is more inportant than me. how can i make him thank of me more than the video game. plz help me!!
2007-03-12 14:51:21 · 5 answers · asked by brandi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but don't u think its pretty bad when u only get to see each other 2 times a week and all he ever thanks about his that dumb video game i even thought about getting one just to show him how it feels but that don't matter to him b.c now he don't ever talk to me on the phone are anything what do u do at a point like this.
2007-03-12 15:31:16 · update #1
Girl that's a part of life. He ain't trying to break up he is just a kid. I think you should beat him at his own game. Don't be Ms. Available. Do your own thang for a while and make him come after you!
2007-03-12 14:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both must be young -- teen?
My son went through this stage; he played obsessively with his friends and all they wanted to talk was the game. But he eventually has other interests and goes out and does things. I only hope that your bf will stop at some point; otherwise, you may have to find someone else who pays more attention to you and not the game.
2007-03-12 14:59:33 · answer #2 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's immature enough to put a video game before your relationship then maybe he's not ready for a serious adult relationship. But communicating how you feel to him will be the real test. If he still ignores you then maybe the fire is gone for him. If he acknowledges his mistake and attempts to correct it then he truly cares about you and the relationship
2007-03-12 14:58:09 · answer #3 · answered by talagraphics 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes you he would drop the video game and spend time with you he wouldn't be wanting to play his game. You're best decision is to dump him and if he likes you he will come after you.
2007-03-12 14:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by april h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just excited by the video game right now, but once there's a scratch on it, or he gets tired of it, he'll come crawling back to you.
2007-03-12 14:56:12 · answer #5 · answered by Queen of Angels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋