My boyfriend likes me alot but doesn't show it. It's getting on my nerves. He doesn't talk to me barely. He doesn't act like he's my boyfriend. I am his first girlfriend though. But he still should talk to me.
2007-03-12 14:49:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't like him ignoring you, then ignore him and he'll be like, "Baby! Why aren't u talkin to me, or anything? Why are you doing this to me?" Then tell him about him, but don't argue... And then do it as much as you can... LOL JK but I mean seriously don't keep bugging him... It only makes him like you less...
2007-03-12 14:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by Queen of Angels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he's just not ready and he might just need some time. If you say he really likes you then, you should really try to stay with him. You don't wanna break his heart now do you? He's new to the whole girlfriend thing, and he might not know really what to do. Give him some time, and just try to make the best of it. He's just nervous, since you're his first. Don't get too frsutrated. He might be one you like. Maybe he might not show it now, but you never know what will happen. He might be more than you expect!
2007-03-12 14:54:30 · answer #2 · answered by Nina_Nice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to him? If you lay out all the cards on the table he will either react to it or he will just blow you off. If he talks to you about it than you have something to work around whether it is just communication issues, shyness, or something worse. If it is something worse such as he isn't into you anymore or if he is cheating on you than YOU DESERVE BETTER!!! If he blows you off then he ovbiously doesn't care and you should give him the ultimatium. One other thing about guys it that if you are constantly bugging them they tend to get stand-offish and sometimes they just need space. Try talking to him though. I'm sorry that he is being such a bummer. GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-03-12 14:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by azdaizey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see:
1. He won't talk to you (well, barely)
2. He doesn't act like he is your boyfriend
3. He doesn't show that he likes you
What makes you think he is your boyfriend? I don't think you need to worry about dumping him. I don't think there is anything to dump.
2007-03-12 14:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMGSH.I am in the EXACT same situation as you..although he talks to me he only talks about himself and he doesnt act like a boyfriend but i dont wanna dump him. haha.sorry i was like freaky coincidence.how old are you?[sorry might help with the situation...]
2007-03-12 14:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this to me sounds like a very immature relationship. your "boyfriend" is very immature if he doesnt want to talk you. why the hell are u guys going out if you guys dont talk. that's dumb. look, i say dump the guy. if u cant talk to him about how you feel, and he wont talk to you about his feeling or about anything in general, then i say, what the heck! get rid of him find someone who does listen. it doesnt matter how much he "likes" you. relationships are based on a little something called communication.
2007-03-12 14:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by Que Pasa? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a pound of fresh jalapeno peppers and put them in a blender. Use a colander to separate the juice and apply liberally to the toilet seat. He will burn his **** when sits on the seat. It make take a few minutes. Then he will talk to you.
2007-03-12 15:02:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your his 1st it might take him sometime to get use to haveing a girlfriend mayb u should talk to him and find out why he don't talk to u. and then go from there. he might be a little shy and he might not no what to say. just give it sometime im sure it will come through
2007-03-12 14:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by brandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes to imature even tho ur his 1st bf he should still kno u gotta talk 2 a girl!! relationships don't work EVER if you don't have comunication trust me on dat yea well i say u wait a lil while and see if he decided to talk if not ...then get sum1 new i kno it sounds hard 2 4get some one u like
2007-03-12 14:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by Amelia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people treat you the way you allow them to treat you.
so, get used to it. it will only get worse from here. and you will have no one to blame but yourself.
and as you are sitting there being miserable remember that you didn't want to dump him!
2007-03-12 15:04:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋