i asked this girl out at my school she said no but she would if i lost some weight. i said nevermind. but it got me thinking do girls really juege on looks and not personaialty?
2007-03-12 14:47:15 · 22 answers · asked by badgerboy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sure, some do. They are called shallow, don't bother with them!
2007-03-12 14:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jiana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first of all that girl is a total jerk and not worth your time, if she treats you like that. Sadly enough some girls do judge on looks, however those are the shallow type that aren't worth your time. But there are real girls out there who if love you for you even if you weigh 200 pounds and are 2 feet tall. Don't worry not all of us are shallow whores!
2007-03-12 21:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by baylie l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls are as shallow as that one seems to be. I see their outer appearance first, but it definitely is NOT the most important aspect. If a hottie can't hold a conversation, then I will be bored out of my skull. I take smart, funny guys over airheaded jocks (not saying all jocks are airheads..) any day of the week!
2007-03-12 21:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by Pyro kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunatley, some girls do.. but if they arnt willing to get to know you for YOU then they wont make you happy in the end. I had a bf that wasnt the best looking guy in the world, and everyone told me I could do better.... I am engaged to that man right now! Thats because I love him, and becasue I took the time to get to know him for him, and he is the most amazing man that I have ever met!
2007-03-12 21:51:41 · answer #4 · answered by Trista R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all the girl sounds shallow as all get out. but its not only girls that are superficial, and shallow, guys are the same way too. dont worry about it too much, and dont let it get you down. its not worth it. someone will come along who likes you for the person you are on the inside not the outside, so it will be worth it that much more when she comes around.
2007-03-12 21:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by Heather Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its only natural to look at looks first, i mean thats what attracts people in the first place. but as for someone liking you for personality and not looks you are probably gotta be friends first to get to know eachother. but for someone to say that, they are obviously rude and ignorant and dont deserve you anyway! she'll end up with a guy who will treat her the way she treated you, and if she's stays with him bet u anything he'll turn fat, ugly and a loser in the end anyway. you'll find someone who has respect for themselves and others so just slap the ***** away!
2007-03-12 22:16:13 · answer #6 · answered by tralw2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately I think that most young girls do judge on looks. As they get older and have been hurt by the so called "hot" guys that they threw themselves at for the sake of being seen with them, they realize that it's what's inside that matters. Don't change who you are for anyone. If someone doesn't want to be with you for you then they are not worth your time. Would you rather someone like you for you, or like you for who you pretend to be? If you want to lose weight, do it for yourself. Then, when she comes to you and wants to date you, tell her you're looking for someone who's not so superficial. Forget this girl....she's not good enough for you.
2007-03-12 21:53:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion I think that if a guy is honest, sweet, and has a great personality. It shouldn't matter about what you look like.A girl should like you for whats on the inside not what you look like on the outside.
2007-03-12 21:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by april h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how shallow the girl is. first the girl has to get attracted. in personility or looks. depends on the girl. but with me i wont decline a date because the guy is fat. in fact i like bigger guys for some reason. they are more cuddlable and some what more carin.
2007-03-12 21:51:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO...Not all girls judge a guy on there weight...Yes, it IS a little embarrasing but if they really liked you they would'nt care. They would want you for your personality and how you make them feel...
And plus...why would you want to be with a girl that doesnt like you for who you are, but for who you look like.
2007-03-12 22:10:48 · answer #10 · answered by *Breath* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what she said was very rude. I'd never have the nerve to say anything like that!! Sounds like she's more interested in what you look like than feelings.
2007-03-12 21:52:51 · answer #11 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋