I'm 18 and sleeping with a 14 year old why is it wrong? it's only like 4 years. he is old enough to know what he is doing. his mom called me a pedophile and told me not to see her son anymore. who is wrong here?
2007-03-12 14:45:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are! Duh!! How in the hell can that be good for a 14 year old, you are pretty much having sex with a child!! Don't you think it would be more appropriate to be with someone your own age? You say only 4 years, but 4 years is a lot when you are working with ages as young as yours and his!
2007-03-12 14:50:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically it's not illegal, especially since he consents, but I suggest you stop it. 14 year old don't know what they want enough to make a desicion like that. And what if you become pregnant? He's not going to have the resources to take care of you or the baby. He's life will be over even before it begins. And this is coming from a 16 year old. His mom wants you to stop seeing him too. I would listen to her. What if something happens between you two and she goes to the cops? They will most likely side with her. Maybe you think you're in love with each other or whatever, but you should stop seeing him and find someone new. Maybe stay friends and than see what happends in 4 years?
2007-03-12 21:51:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consentualy sex is fine, however when it comes to parents and stuff they think that 14 yr olds and 18 yr olds are too much of a difference and to a degree they are right, technically its statuatory rape to be 18 and sleep with a 14 yr old. Because he is the male and you female it makes it awkward to think that you want a single man, younger. Its up to the 14 yr old if its ok or not. Take your time and make sure that you know what you want. Take care Heather
2007-03-12 21:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly YOU are wrong. at least in MY state of TEXAS. IT is illegal for an adult ( person 18 or over) to sleep with a minor ( person under 18) no matter if he is consiting or not. the parents can get you for staturary rape. it carries a heafty jail term and you will have to register as a sex offender for life. trust me. you dont want that. it can keep you from getting a good job and really ruin your life. if you love the guy then keep it friendly for now. and then when hes of age sleep with him. otherwise mom can throw you in jail. also as a sex offender you will not be able to live near schools, playgrounds. and certain neighborhoods. the state of texas even puts a picture of you and the crime in the newspaper and on the web. so EVERYONE will know. think about it.
2007-03-12 22:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by tx_lady_806 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are WRONG! It is only four years, but when someone is under 18 age matters! You are an adult and he is a child. You need to stop and examine the XRAY! His mother is right. Think of how you would feel as a parent. If you were 24 and he was 20 then it would be okay. It's not a matter of four years, it's a matter of adult and child. He is a child and you are an adult.
2007-03-12 21:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU are! By law, depending on the state the age of consent is usually 16 or 17 and that fact that you are 18 and he is 14 means that you are breaking the law.
2007-03-12 21:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gong by the law it's wrong , if a man did this he would be labeled a pedophile and will go to jail ... so we have to practice what we preach on all accounts no exception to male or female ..his still a child ,,,also put ur self in his mothers place would u allow Ur child to date some one 18 and Ur child is 14 ?
2007-03-12 21:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by amal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wrong and you can go to jail it don't matter how mny excuses you give you can be arrested for it charged with stautory rape and be registered in the national data base for being a sexual predator and you will have ruined your life so is having sex with the 14 year old worth ruining your life for
2007-03-12 21:49:53 · answer #8 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st, 18 and 14 years old doesnt make a different becoz both are still consider as YOUNG! Sleep make it worst.. i think that his mum is trying to prevent than sorry incase one day her son get you into unwanted pregnancy.
2007-03-12 21:50:13 · answer #9 · answered by Its me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly You are he is still to young till hes 18. He can be 18 and you 22 and it wont be against the law. Now it is against the law
2007-03-12 21:48:54 · answer #10 · answered by HunnyBunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋