I have two Q's but first hers the low down. Okay i have a freind and he's kind of a looser. not a nerd just a little lame when it comes to talking to girls. well he asked out this girl that i was going to ask after she broke up with this guy. Well my freind found out first and started to write her. Then he asked her out. She has had a crush on me for a while now and had been writing me. So she told him no. So my Q is do i ask her out now or wait until he gets over her and goes for another girl. And does this make me a bad freind or just lucky. Please help me i am at a cross roads and dont wont to ruin a freindship what do i do. All tips are appreciated.
2007-03-12 14:42:44 · 9 answers · asked by LJD4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well honey you have a problem!! Me personally if you like her and she likes you go for it and if he doesnt except the fact then that is his problem i know its hard to do that to a friend but you could always ask him "Would you get mad if i asked her out?" and if he says he doesnt mind then go for it and if he says no then that when you have to make a decision to know if you want the girl or your friend!! Thats the best i can do for you! Hope it helps!! Good Luck!!!
2007-03-12 14:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by luh luh la reee! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please don't care of him, u just sayed he's a looser, don't u? a prove of that is that he lost the girl, if she rejected him he wouldn't love her anymore, go take a chance, he'll understand, if she had a crush on u before why not now, c'mon take the girl, u won't ruin ur friendship, instead he should be happy 4 u both when u and her be a couple cause he's ur friend, friends always understand this things and if he don't he's not ur friend
2007-03-12 21:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look it depends on how much you really love this girl because this is when you as a person must make the dicision, whats more important my friend or my soon to be girl friend. Oh and if your friend is really your friend then he should be happy for you that you and this girl get together.
2007-03-12 21:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by killedheart101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it might be depending on your friendship, talk to him about it, say how much you care about her. o, and what ever you do , don't go behing his back, like I did. I couldn't regret it more. A potentially make-shift relationship isn't worth losing a good friend over. trust me. Good luck, and you are NOT a bad friend, you can't help who you like.
2007-03-12 21:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that she has been writing you and that you are really starting to like her and you've been thinking about asking her out. Whether you want his approval or not, have enough compassion for him to tell him before he finds and feels betrayed.
2007-03-12 21:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by spillin paint 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should wait becuase thats kinda messed up for your freind if he found out that u asked her out that would maybe ruin your relantionship with your freind and i dont think u want to do that becuase hes your freind
P.S BROS BEFORE HOES.........
2007-03-13 00:30:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is your friend and you should tell him that you had been thinking about asking this girl out before he did and you didn't want to say anything. So I would still like to ask her out, what do you think? Anyway I would talk to my friend first so he doesn't think you are befriending him.
2007-03-12 21:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it will hurt his feelings if you go out with her. so what if she is a sexy little thing, there will be alot more where those came from later on in life. so now you decide if its worth it. no one on here can tell you what to think. cuz ultimatly you will do what you want to do.
2007-03-13 19:11:48 · answer #8 · answered by summer girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he never dated her so you can go for it!
2007-03-12 21:46:38 · answer #9 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋