my b/f cheated in the pass and he claim that he stop but all of a sudden the girl that he cheated with is calling him again. i think that he is talking to her again. but he say that he is not and that he does even answer her calls.if there is nothing going on why won't he let me check the messages that she leaves or why can't he tell her to stop calling her like i ask him to. why do he get mad when i want to answer the phone or when i do answer he gets mad at for what.
2007-03-12 14:22:06 · 25 answers · asked by baby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First make sure you aren't over reacting... If you do believe that he is up to something then maybe you deserve better...
2007-03-12 14:25:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gets mad at you when you do that he is obviously cheating or he is getting mad because he feels you dont trust him the best thing to do is when ever the phone ring tell him to pick it up and stand there why he's talkin and if he picks it up and hang it back up ask why he hung it up and if you get no answer sorry but you may have to assume the he mightbecheating onyou if someone cheats on you that means that they want something else and if your not the person he wants then dont waste your time life is to short to wait for other people to change and it's not like you married him
2007-03-12 21:39:23 · answer #2 · answered by mark n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there's a big posibilty that he is cheating again because if there is nothing to hide why doesnt he want you to check or answer his phone? I mean its normal for you to do those stuff because he cheated on you once before and you're just trying to make sure that he's not doing it again. So when he gets mad then there is something that he's hiding people will show you th prove if there not doing anything wrong at all and he doesnt show you that so he's obviously guilty.
2007-03-12 21:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by honeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm sorry but, this guy is cheating on you. No offense but, its just too obvious to miss. All he has to do is get his number changed but, obviously he doesn't wanna do that b/c he likes her. You need to get rid of him before you get your heartbroken again. You know the saying once a cheater always a cheater? Well its true and believe me I found out the hard way. Good luck!!
2007-03-12 21:31:36 · answer #4 · answered by Nay Nay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best person to give you that answer is yourself. Us women have something called a woman's intuition. And that means if it feels like he is backing to cheating again, nine times out of ten he is.
2007-03-12 21:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NAW! Girl, forget that dude! The first time should have been enough! And if he were innocent he would have given you all his passwords to check every damn thing he has. So uh-uh, don't take his sh*t. Kick his cheatin *** to the curb! He's just a trick! There are hundreds, even thousands of men out there that know how to treat a lady. Thats what you need, not a stupid boy that pretends.
Good Luck!
2007-03-12 21:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by Kaya808 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what you are going threw the same thing i went thew at one time a long time a go. he still likes her and most likely still seeing her that,s way he gets so mad at you .you don,t need this .he wants her so bad let him have her let him go he well just keep lieing to you if not with her or some one esle.but if you put up with this it is your own fault .if you can not do this by your self have some one be with you to do it like your dad , mom brother some one that can give you surport GOODLUCK
2007-03-12 22:07:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you already know the answer to ur question.....hiding messages and phone calls are signs of a cheating bf.... better you break up with him if you cant hang on....
because trust is the basic foundation of a relationship...why be with a person that doesn't earn your trust...
2007-03-12 21:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by daryl016 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well somethings going on if he gets mad at you for that. Sorry but dump his butt. You can probally do alot better without his cheating butt around.
Dump him and find yourself a keeper.
Good luck.
2007-03-12 21:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by aj_harness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is bad news, if its continues he probably is cheating on you with that girl. might as well find a new guy instead of wasting your time on him. or on the other hand he probably just wants you to trust him completly. but it doesnt seem like it. if he was really into you he wont talk to his ex. or make it seem like he is hiding something. its on your part to make your judgement on your guy. maybe you should ask one of his close friends.
2007-03-12 21:26:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS CHEATING!!!! Why are you even asking us? He is not even being sneaky. It's right in your face and you are blinding yourself. Why are you doing that? Let him go unless you are a sucker for a jerk! If that's what you are into then stay with him!
2007-03-12 21:26:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋