I'm a very gentle man and people often miscontrue me as being a stuck up. What do i do? Do i change my personality? I feel sick when i try to be what i'm not.
2007-03-12 14:21:58 · 10 answers · asked by Tim 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
People who are worth knowing will take the time to get to know you. The rest aren't deserving of consideration.
2007-03-12 14:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by Julia Sugarbaker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you selected an avatar that seems to harbor an angry expression. The handle "Chronic" doesn't exactly exude a warm handshake connotation.
It may be how you present yourself? Depending on where you work, many health insurance coverages include a limited trial for mental health related sessions. My employer gets you three sessions I think. You aren't going for the "shrink" aspect, go for the personality review. You'll get a great, impartial, no stress, review of whats bugging you. Plus they have some standardized tests which will help reveal to you how you present yourself to others.
2007-03-12 21:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by KirksWorld 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. Also, people often think that I am frowning when I am not. (Must be the shape of my mouth.) I am a quiet person and I don't feel the need to talk alot or draw unnecessary attention to myself. Don't change your personality, just make a conscious effort to be friendly and smile more, say hello to a stranger passing by.
2007-03-12 21:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by HRchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your a scare crow? Are they literally running away from you? I have the same problem, but they don't run very far and then just congregate and titter in small groups on the outskirts of my hearing.
2007-03-12 21:25:53 · answer #4 · answered by Pen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you look people up and down? Do you like starbucks? Do you like looking at yourself in the mirror? These are all signs that you are stuck up.
2007-03-12 21:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by e. nigma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, why dont you ask the people who run away why they think your stuck up. also, i dont think you should try to be what your not unless you ARE acting very bad. (just joking)
2007-03-12 21:25:44 · answer #6 · answered by candyfairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my woman's intuition told me to run.. I'd be gone asap no matter how nice you tried to be. so what are you up to? hmm.. intuition is a woman's best friend.
2007-03-12 21:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by ricketyoldbat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no just adjust your style so people can figure out what you mean.
2007-03-12 21:25:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHERE ARE YOU STUCK UP TO????????? HA HA HA CHEERS CHEN
2007-03-12 21:26:30 · answer #9 · answered by cheneece13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should smile more and smile at everyone...
2007-03-12 21:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋