When I make love to my gf, often I find I'm actually thinking about some of the girls at work. Is this wrong?
2007-03-12 14:18:48 · 26 answers · asked by superscorer2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes it is. you should only be thinkin about her.
2007-03-12 14:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hello,
NO, IT'S NOT WRONG, When you are loving your girlfriend, the balance of you mind is way out on a limb of its own, and she would very likely be lying to you if she told you she wasn't doing the same, you or she could have the sexiest face/body, and all the other bits to do with love, and still, your mind would wander, the reallity reappears to you when you come round again after loving your girl, and it was she that made you feel this way, not another who is probably well beyond your reach.
So, relax,and enjoy each others loving,and don't worry about where you mind goes, when you loving your girl has your thoughts concentrating on those other women in your mind, you and your girl, are getting it on to the physical exclusion of all others, but the mental exclusion of all others, now, that's a job for some other kind of specialist, and we are not trained for that kind of loving, and I am sure we wouldn't want to be, loving is more fun and happy just the way it is, so enjoy, enjoy, enjoy...Tony M....
2007-03-12 23:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by tony m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'd better tame your thoughts because if you call out the wrong girl's name...Do you flirt with these girls at work? If there is a high attraction for these women, try to stay clear of them as much as possible. Those thoughts should go away after a while, if not, you'd better hold your tongue in bed from now on! I think you'll be okay as long as you don't attempt to act on these thoughts.
Be careful!!
2007-03-12 22:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by YaShen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it is right or wrong, but I will say that if I were your girlfriend I would be very insulted. I am not saying that you aren't supposed to look or anything. But when you are in the bedroom with her, she is what you should be thinking about. How would you feel if you found out that while you were having sex with her she was thinking about your neighbor or a buddy of yours? You might really want to think about weather or not you are really happy and satisfied with this woman. It is not fair to her if you are only giving her part of yourself. If you are thinking about other women while having sex with her then you are not really giving her your all.
2007-03-12 21:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by Broken 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doesnt sound to good to me, surely if you love her, you should be thinking about her when you two have sex, as another said you wouldnt be pleased if she was thinking about men at her work while you to were having sex. Maybe you should see how these feelings are towards the girls at work, and possible spilt with your gf.....
2007-03-12 21:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yesss. What are u doing thinking of other girls? U have to answer that question for yourself. There is underlying reasons for it and once u figure out what they are then u will be able to determine if its something more serious. Like maybe u are interested in the girls at work or something...Good luck
2007-03-12 21:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well its wrong in my books but then agian alot of people would say its quite normal ......... i dont think its nice at all how would you like it if your gf was thinking that she was making love to one of her work buddies instead of you....... and if your human and have a heart i dont think u would like it at all so think about it.......... if u think of these other girls then it is also a lead way to cheat if you already havent
2007-03-12 21:26:46 · answer #7 · answered by littlemisssaigon 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is wrong to get caught, the thinking about it part is human nature.
2007-03-12 21:21:54 · answer #8 · answered by Phartzalot 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not cool, your supposed to focus on the one your with. Would it bother you if she were thinking of a guy she worked with?
2007-03-12 21:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah. ur gf doesnt deserve u if u r thinking about other peole in a way.
2007-03-12 21:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by Autumnkins 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no r u sleeping with the girl from work no so just if she pops in your head then enjoy the extra spice
2007-03-12 21:27:23 · answer #11 · answered by james f 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋