There's someone in the office I'm interested in. She always seems too busy to talk. And I feel weird making up reasons to go talk to her. I asked her to lunch once and although we didn't eat together she went along for the trip to cafeteria. She always seems busy when I try to chat but at the same time makes time for her close friends. So I wrote her an email instead saying I'd like to chat via IM. She responded positively and promptly gave me her IM address. But since then, whenever I IM her she's too busy to chat. So much so that she's stopped responding at all even to say she's busy. So I figure I'd give her some space-either she's really busy or is ignoring me. Even weirder is when I do see her it's as if she doesn't know she's not responding. I thought I'd solved the lack of contact between us when I got the IM address so we can talk in short soundbites. Now I'm back to square one. I've make my way over there to talk again, but if she looks busy I leave her alone. What to do?
2007-03-12 14:07:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The thing is I know all signs point towards lack of interest. But when I see her she smiles at me & I smile back, she seems genuinely happy to see me when I visit(that is when she makes time) and she's also told me that I should visit her more often. Plus, when she walks by my area, she sometimes taps my cube to say hi. I feel like I should do more because of this but less because of her ignoring me sometimes.
2007-03-12 14:18:19 · update #1
Girls love funny guys. Keep your chats light and sweet and funny. Make her laugh. Casually go up and say "high cutie, you look especially pretty today." Crack a joke or two. Don't linger. Keep up the banter everyday, but just a little each day, and work up to longer conversations. Hopefully she will look forward to your little visits to her desk. Then stop. Keep her intrigued, hopefully then, she will be the one seeking you out. Good luck.
2007-03-12 14:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The woman just has so much going on in her life that she doesn't have a moment left to respond. If yo want to get her attention buy her some flowers and ask her out for dinner. This will make your intentions know and she will be very flattered and be more interested in your visits. Take care Heather
2007-03-12 21:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, she is blowing you off in a very prominent manor, your best bet is to find another interest before she gets fed up and says something to a supervisor or something. If she was interested she would have done some im'ing with you, or would make time to chat.
2007-03-12 21:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by rottie110 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she's just way too busy..... and if she keeps showin' no change,then leave her alone.
2007-03-12 21:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by Bluntness 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not interested.
2007-03-12 21:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋