I have a girlfriend, but I don't see her as a person who can satisfy my physical fantasies. I chose her for character, but she doesn't have the 'body' of my liking. What can I do?
2007-03-12 13:59:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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You like her mind but not her body.
Then she is your friend, not your girlfriend and you should inform her of this before she is hurt even more. Stop wavering back and forth.
Fantasies are just that... fantasies. Every man would love to have a Shakira in his bed. Beautiful and brilliant young woman. Mensa IQ and a body too. But it doesn't happen to many. Most me do very nicely with average gals.
Real women are real women and available. Perhaps you need to rethink your priorities.
Whatever you do, stop leading this girl on, even if you do not mean to do this. You might find, however, that her wit and her skills might outdo those of any beauty you might meet.
2007-03-12 17:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by Noor al Haqiqa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide if the physical fantasy part is more important than having a girl with the character you admire. You may decide to get rid of her and then realize the girls with your ideal physical characteristics don't have the character that your girl does.
If you decide it's too important, then you have a right to end it. I realize that if you're just not attracted to someone, it's hard to have a meaningful relationship, even if they're the greatest person!
2007-03-12 21:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by heatre24 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go an find another girlfriend that has the character and body u want...
2007-03-12 21:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by fooleong_chong 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Love her and respect her for the character that you like, that's what love is.
2007-03-12 21:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by jellybean24 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋