i feel like i just broke up with this guy who i have liked for 14 months. only i just liked him and he said today when confronted that he "couldve saved me the time by telling me we were just friends". Does anyone have any ideas on how i should get over this heartbreak i (inadvertinadley) caused?
and how to treat him
i told him that i never wanted to talk to him again, then he said "okay..then ill leave and go be over here"
i didnt know that ust giving up and saying i dotn like you was going to so hard. none of my friends care so i dont have anyone to confide in.
if you want more details..ill add them on a need to know basis
thanks :) xoxo
2007-03-12 13:56:31 · 6 answers · asked by PrincessaBella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u really want the truth/what to do, you need to just relax for 1, and relationships that last over 5-6 months are going to be hard to get over because they are so long ofa time to be together. i suggest you just go out with your gf's and try to enjoy being alone, ur bf must not have been very gentleman like to just spring a break up on you, but honestly, guys do A LOT OF STUPID S*** that we dont think about doing, we just do it.
So, until a few days go by,2-3 i guess, then i would try to just forget about ur man, b/c he doesn't deserve a beautiful young woman like yourself.
JUST BE HAPPY WITH U!! ;)
2007-03-12 14:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by PromKingOf2008 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry that you are hurt. However, you seem to have read more into this relationship than there was. It sounds like you never really "officially" dated. 14 months is a long time to like someone, especially this guy. He sounded very cruel, and insensitive towards you. If your friends do not care, I would seek new friends, look for new interests to meet people who will be more open to care about you. There are good people out there, join a team, or group to find quality friends.As for seeing this guy(at school?) just be indifferent, it will pass. Next time you like someone, make sure they are worthy of your attention, and time.
2007-03-20 08:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever been fishing? sometimes one bites and you do everything you can and still lose it, other times you keep reeling in these pesty little fish that you don't want and you have to keep unhooking them to throw them back, still other times nothing bites at all, once in a while you'll have a fine day and catch your limit and have a huge fish fry that evening . . . so is how love is. Just remember, if they're biting, you can't quit and go home and if they're not, you can't go home empty handed !!
2007-03-20 20:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by Gardner? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just time to heal a heart.soon you will forget about being hurt and move on.So he had no feelings for you?alot of times someone says crazy things when confronted in any way,embarrassment,on the spot...ect.are you let down cause he said that,or cause you wanted to be with him?anyways just time...good luck
2007-03-20 20:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always talked stuff like this over with my parents that made it easy for me.
2007-03-20 20:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by reddie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her is the precription for a broken heart:
- get up and do something with your friends
- don't think about him
- talk to your best friend
i hope that your heart feels better soon.
2007-03-12 21:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by cajin_dreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋