As for people that has answered my first question about popping the question to my boyfriend of 5yrs. Lately I've been feeling alone more and more lately and when I call to talk to him he's either busy or he has to call me back. I don't like to assume anything but before I had asked for his help back in Jan. he's been really distant and I love him but right now I don't feel as strong towards him as I use to. I didn't pop the question to him because it just didn't feel right and I don't want to get married again we've both been married before. I just need some type of advice because I really can't talk to him. I'm not on the phone long enough to even ask him. Hell he went out of town and I didn't even know until he was on his way back. I've loved him since day one and can't see me with anyone else but I know it will be hard to get over him it has been 5 yrs, 6yrs in June. Someone please help me should I move on?
2007-03-12 13:50:34 · 7 answers · asked by DADDYS' GIRL 4LF 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am in the same situation you are my fiance and I have been together for almost two years and he has been distant from me for the past week. I really try to talk to him but he won't, like you said he is either busy or don't want to talk. If I were you I would move on because I am about to move on myself and its going to be hard because I love him and have a one year old with him.
2007-03-12 13:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by april h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youve known him long enough 2 make a decision.
Do you think its better that u2 part or what? Really you gotta make time with your bf and discuss with him. Tell him make an appointment 2 see him if you have 2 and talk 2 him you need 2 talk with him You cant make drastic decisions you gotta talk 2 him
Hope all works out for the best 4 u2
Good Luck
2007-03-12 14:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell, you mean to say that you have been married before? Haven't you learned anything? You're talking about years, as if you have that many to waste. Move on. Get real with yourself. It is obvious that he does not want to be bothered by you. You are making a total jerk out of yourself. So, stop it! Please, have more respect for yourself and let it go. Find something to occupy your mind with other than how to land this guy. Go back to school. Get a higher education. Now that should keep you busy (and out of his hair).
2007-03-12 14:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by DARMADAKO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont really think you should move on it would be extremely difficult to move on with someone of 5 years maybe you just try talking to him and asking him if every thing is alright and i know you probablly get told to "just talk to him" alot but its true and just wait a little while and see if he becomes the same again!!! discuss it over dinner. be romantic with him.and i dont know what you meant by i dont have time to ask him over the phone i hope you didnt mean ask him to marry you over the phone cause you should definetly do it in person and congratulatios on 5 years. ur lucky to have found someone you truely love and i really hope my awnser helped good luck!!!!!!!
2007-03-12 14:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by ~~ny giants fan~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There seems to be a vast communication gap between the two of you. Try to find a time when you can discuss the situation. If he refuses to do that then I think you need to move on.....good luck to you!
2007-03-12 13:59:14 · answer #5 · answered by Maiden Fair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if marriage is never to be mentioned
your road to hell is paved with good intentions
but, don't let his shunning you get ya down
you can start life over if you turn around
like the drunk reeks of rum,
to get past the smell leave the bum!
2007-03-12 14:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. set a date and meet him in person. if you don't talk to him and be open, this cant go anywhere. if he loves you, he'll be totally ok with it.
2007-03-12 13:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by eat_sleep_breath_livevolleball 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋