does god not want them to be happy? why is he holding out?
2007-03-12 13:42:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man don't scare me like that I'm 30 and have never been married and don't have any kids. But i've not given up on the idea of it just yet.
I feel that GOD has something in store for everyone. If it's gonna happen then it'll happen but it's not anything that I want to rush anyway.
2007-03-12 13:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people have commitment phobia and are too scared to give themselves to someone else, others just prefer not to. Some people can't have kids because of medical reasons and i think it's just gods way ( i'm not religious) of doing things. Some are meant to have kids or get married and other people aren't, it's just natures way of keeping the population from exploding.
2007-03-12 20:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all God has nothing to do with it. What do you think? He's got a list of good and naughty girls and all the good girls get a guy and all the naughty ones get penthouse suites with an expence account.
Do you think you take him out, wind him up, he performs some kinda miracle, turn water to wine, set aside 23 virgins for some suicide bomber, and, oh wait, set aside someone for you. Is that how it works?
Where is the free-will he gave you? Where do you take responsibility for your life? Having his love isn't enough? Now, you want him running a dating service for you?
Kids? ... you haven't found him yet, let alone someone to have kids with. You gotta problem with him, ask the people who claim to represent his word. Maybe they can help.
OR ...
Take a course in marketing. And market yourself. All the rules apply, even if its you and not a can of sardines.
The laws of supply and demand apply, except where prohibited by local ordinances..
2007-03-12 21:08:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think God has anything to do with it. I think people invoke God as an excuse for their suffering, or as a blind hope that things will get better.
Lots of reasons why people don't get married. In my case, it's because I'm shy, inexperienced and very nervous around women. If I can't get a frickin date, how am I ever going to get a wedding?
2007-03-12 20:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its all in the person's perspectives.
everyone is different. and its real tough to live in today's society. some say that we should just be patient and things will come are way.
to answer your question, it might be that they are just not ready yet to for that kind of commitment; this can be applied in both ways. the person might not be emotionally or physically ready and more over, spiritually. if you believe in something or maybe a goal in life, just have faith.
always look at the bright side. never give up.
2007-03-12 20:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by dazednconfused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everybody wants to get married and have kids. Some people just never find the "one". There are many reasons...
2007-03-12 20:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says gettting married and having kids is the be all end all? I think a lot of people just do it to do it. They settle, get knocked up, make bad decisions and then resent the people who managed to avoid all that drama.
2007-03-12 20:54:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, God wants everyone to be happy. those people sometimes just don't like to be held down and they want to explore more and see things, but having a family might hold them back.
2007-03-12 20:53:14 · answer #8 · answered by BAMBI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I chose not to have kids. Screaming all that stuff just isn't for me. Not married because I haven't found someone I feel that I want to make that commitment to. When I do, I will. This is all my choice, not god's.
2007-03-12 20:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by IamwhatIam♥♥♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are some people out there who prefer not to get married and have kids cuz they dont like it.
2007-03-12 20:55:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋