Its corny, buy I wrote a love letter for my ex who I'm in love with. We haven't dated in about 3 years but we've been kind of close and I think he still loves me, but I don't know if he wants to be with me again. He told me he doesn't trust anyone because every girlfriend of his cheated on him, and I know that to be true (including me) and I don't know if that's any excuse, but I never cheated on anyone else again and I never would on him again. I have a love letter and poem I want to give him that I hope will let him give me a second chance, if not then at least he'll know how I really feel. I am so scared to do it, especially at school where we don't acknowledge each other. One friend of mine says to do it, another says not to, and another says to talk to him in person which I prefer but I don't know when I will get the chance. What should I do? I know all of this is corny, but I want some advice because I'm just ready to give up.
2007-03-12 13:06:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Life is too short to live with regret. Give it to him, if he is not interested he will let you know, if not then this could be the most interesting and loving relationship you could ever have. Don't leave yourself never knowing? the old saying is once a cheater always a cheater. Never ever cheat again in a relationship, this is the result of it, not knowing what the x wants or what you want. Learn the lesson and move on, if he doesn't respond to you. If he does, then don't blow it and really mean what you say and need and want. Communication is the key to any relationship. Take care Heather
2007-03-12 13:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tricky. If you send the letter and he doesn't ring to say he got it then you will stress about that and you will be too embarrassed to ring him so I reckon don't send it!
I think you should be honest. Ring him up and just say you have been thinking about what an **** you were for cheating on him because he was the best thing that ever happened to you and you wish you could have that time over again because there is no way you would do that to him. His response will let you know if you should say anything more than that!
Of course all this should only happen IF you are genuine about wanting him back. I mean if you cheated on him before, make sure you have really thought about all the things that might have been really wrong with the relationship.
2007-03-12 20:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by fee_beee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone deserves a second chance! If you cheated on him, then you should be the one in the awkward, tough position (which you are, wanting to give him this letter professing your feelings). So I say, let him know what you're feeling but remember this...if he doesn't look kindly on your love letter, he could (if he's NOT a super nice guy who harbors no ill will toward you) pass that letter around in an effort to embarass you. I say talk to him instead. Or go one better and ask him for a few moments of his time and READ the letter TO him. good luck!
2007-03-12 20:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by neighbor01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated on the 1 love of my life, the biggest mistake in my life and i regret it more than anything. We got back together and things weren't the same but it was only a few months. I still to this day love him and I always will, I would let him know in someway because if you still love him and he loves you then you both need to know that. I recently told my Ex I still loved him but he has a different girlfriend and Say's he's happy but he lives with someone who is very close to me and he never spends time with her so how happy can he really be?
2007-03-12 20:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The situation you are dealing with is a really tough one, but I believe it can be resolved by just talking to him and sharing your feelings.I think that in this world, you will like alot of people, but you'll truly love only one person,you know with that dating marrying love. Maybe he's the one. You gotta take a chance. Tell me how it goes. My fingers are crossed for you!
2007-03-12 20:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by angel9242004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're already ready to give up, he's probably not the right one. He doesn't trust you anymore and you barely talk. How do you know YOU still even like him? There are plenty of fish in the sea. Forget about him, rip up the note, and go find your Nemo. I hope this helps.
nicole
2007-03-12 20:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your still in school and have went out on him once , u will again , dont mess with fate , if it was meant to be he will come around , whats the hurry , ur young and have plenty of time to consider your feelings and his , dont get back with him and later meet the one and only love of your life , it will devastate u both , expeacialy him after trusting u a second time ,
2007-03-12 20:15:33 · answer #7 · answered by R S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all I can say is simply this. You must move on and just do your best. Do what you can to not be depressed because he is more afraid of you, relationship wise then you are. For what I could tell from what you told, that is what it is. So do not be afraid and just move on with your life. It will be hard but just believe in yourself like God believes in you. Christian or not, you should just do your best. It seems to me that he is avoiding you because of it. So that is what I think you should do.
2007-03-12 20:13:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you need to wake up. The only people who can get away with poetry is emos. You have been selfish and mean to this boy. Be logical if u were him, would u take yourself back. Use ur mind. Ur question was one u didnt need help with
2007-03-12 20:11:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say talk to him but over the phone call him up randomly some day when you are truly missing him and tell him what you feel at the very least he will know that you regret cheating on him
2007-03-12 20:10:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋