is it bad that my boyfriend...?

Question

i caught my boyfriend looking at dirty things on the internet. should i care? or let it pass? i think he shouldnt want to look at anybody else, exp for me. it really upsets me. i asked him about it and he says, " ohh i was just looking it up to prove to you that your boobs arent small, bc those girls have small boobs too." but, they were pictures of under girls skirts. im every insulted by this. i thought i was enough for him. guess not. what should i do?

then that same day, he got mad that a boy called me on the phone.

Answer 1

That's the biggest mistake women make. "Why do you need to look at someone else when you have me?"

The fact is that as a guy, he's going to look at every woman. Is this the only thing he does that bothers you? If so, you are one lucky woman.

Stop being insecure. He's not hurting anything.

The upskirt pics are alittle sick, though. I'll give you that.

Answer 2

well hun i would not worry at least hes not cheatting on u by him looking on the net its harmless.hes just a guy and guys do that im sure your a good looking woman and have been with him 4 a while and u know hes not going out to look to hook up with some 1 else u have nothing to worry about let him be i would not get upset if my man did it but Again every 1 is diffrent.

Answer 3

i don't think you should be upset. women take it too personally when men look at porn. i's just something they like to do. it doesn't mean they are attracted to you any less. if he does it all the time or has ridiculous expectations of your body, i'd say that's a problem. but if he looks occassionally, it's no biggie. maybe you can ask him what he likes and you can enjoy it together.

bottom line, don't feel threatened by it. it's normal. it's like him asking you not to masturbate (if you do that is). that woudln't be fair now would it? this is coming from me...a chick no less. good luck! ;-)

Answer 4

Well it was an insult saying it was about your boobs and he was looking under skirts. WOW he is tell you your's is bigger than the one's on the internet. I woudl slap him and kick him to the curb. I would find someone who treats you better than that. SO dump his sorry A*S*S and don't speak to him.

Answer 5

the way i see it you have no reason to be upset. a man is going to be a man and i think you should be glad that it was only porn he was looking at and not out with another woman.
there are allot of couples that look at stuff like that together and get a kick out of it. the more excited he is the better for you.

Answer 6

confront him about it, if u dont like him looking at that tell him, if he really likes u than hell stop, if not, dont waste ur time. also, im sorry, for saying this, but his excuse? kinda stupid, he kinda saying, i was just double checking to see that you had big boobs and if not, then i was gonna dump you, but you found out about this so this is my cover :) it is discusting and tell him if he wants to see under skirts, he aint seeing under urs, anytime soon. And MOVE on! :)

Answer 7

First off you're obviously very young.
Second off, Maybe you should consider his feelings.
Odds are boys will be boys and he'll continue to do it.
Maybe you should consider joining him on the internet and turn it around on him. Look at some men on the net and see how he reacts.

Answer 8

let it go, guys will always want to look at t&a. be happy hes checkin out girls on the internet and not at your best friends house. hell try watching a dirty movie with him, you never know what kind of fun you might get into.

Answer 9

Let it go. If you catch him again THATS when you take action. Guys go through that stage. it has to be expected. I am sorry if you are hurt. Do what your heart tells you!
Sorry!
That dirty lil s**mbag!
Good Luck!


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Answer 10

I don't like it when my guy looks at porn or pictures of other girls naked and I am 38. So you have a right to get upset, he should respect you more, ask him not to look at those sites when you are around