everyday and i dont like he is not one of these unmotivated people he just does it to chill out he doesnt get moody or anything with me but i dont know what do you think....i just think its not good...
2007-03-12 12:53:44 · 15 answers · asked by MissTee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My circle of friend is made up of a highly intelligent and creative group of people. Most of them smoke from time to time, a few smoke every day and still hold down jobs tha would make the vast majority of people on this site very envious.
I think society has a problem with what is labelled by governments as 'drugs' because they allow the government to dictate their thinking. How many of us on here have had a couple of glasses of wine or a beer or two to 'chill out' tonight? I have. So what is the difference. How many of you are condemming marijuana whilst succking back tobacco?
There are drugs that couse harm - weed, alcohol and tobacco are three of these - but two earn the government money and one is illegal. We worry about our partners partaking only of the illegal one.
Here is an interesting statistic. In the UK 220 have died in the last decade of taking excstasy. In the UK thousands of people die every YEAR from alcohol. In the UK the biggest killer of people over 50 are smoking related diseases. In LONDON 10 people are killed every week by cars. Only one of these is illegal. Why?
2007-03-12 13:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I smoke the herb on a daily basis, day in day out. I have a well paid job that I have had for 10 years now. Sure, I can be a bit lazy at times, but nobody is affected by it. My gf doesn't smoke it, but has no objections to me doing it.. If your bf isnt doing any harm to anyone, whats the problem? He could be a wife beater or an alcoholic rather than a pothead.
2007-03-12 20:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by SkUnKmOnKeY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the weed is making him unpleasant and unmotivated, try sitting down with him when he's not high or about to smoke and tell him how it makes you feel when he gets high. If he doesn't care or doesn't change, maybe it's time to find a new guy.
2007-03-12 20:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by bri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will be unmotivated if he smokes weed every day it just chills you out,Im not against weed,I couldnt smoke it every day and hold down a responsible job though.
2007-03-12 20:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by Pat R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i smoke the weed and think it fine however i dont smoke it 7 days a week, and certainly dont have smoke during the day.
its nice chill out at night listen bit music and have wee smoke some peeps prefer glass of wine .
if you dont like it ask your fella to cut down a bit thats only fair
2007-03-12 20:07:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weed is not good for anyone,the smoking of this could escalate to a more dangerous drug, then your bf would be hooked. Not only is it bad for his lungs it also causes schizophrenia with long term use, This has happened to a friends daughter. Talk to him with information you can find on smoking weed ect.
2007-03-12 20:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend recentley asked me to cut down, as she did not like me smoking everyday.
I was pleased about this as I have been making excuses to keep smoking for years, and I wanted a good reason to cut down or stop, she understands that I just use it to chill out and I have a very high powered and streesfull job, but has recommended lots of other things we can do together to reduce stress.
I love my girlfriend so I am happy to listen to anything she has to say and I would like to keep her happy, she has explained that she would not leave me over this, but would like to help me cut down and evetually stop to improve my health and hopefully prevent any mental health problems.
2007-03-13 08:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by Loader2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think it is a better wind down than booze, If it is not really the cause of any drama (as you can see) he seems to react well.
Everyone has different chemistry - hence reacts ts differently - if it works for him - with no ill effects - no need to worry.
2007-03-12 20:05:07 · answer #8 · answered by ShogiO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it starts 2 effect his love-life, as sometimes it can.
then is when u worry.
doesn't sound like he's abusing it, 2 me
just using it 2 chill.
some people drink 4 the same affect.
when he's 2 stoned 4 sex, then u worry.
hope i haven't upset any1, but that's what i think.
:)
2007-03-12 20:03:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have an instinct that it's not good, then it probably isn't. Tell him how you feel, and ask him if he can stop, or atleast not smoke it every single day.
2007-03-12 20:22:18 · answer #10 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋