I am 16 and I have never had a boyfriend or been on a date....quite sad but true. I am friends with all the guys but none seem to like me. I am hit on all hte time outside of school mostly by older guys....like early 20's but by no one at school....i am told im not ugly but i personally think i am.....
brief description: i have mid-back length hair, that is blonde. green/blue eyes that are quite big. i have beige/ivory skin and im 5'7...and about 110 pounds......
i am not shy either...and i flirt with the guys too....but they seem to shy away from me....i am wondering..is it because im smart? or am i just plain old ugly? please help!
2007-03-12 12:51:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound fine to me, where is your picture ?
16 is not old at all..
Many girls don't start dating until 16...
If older guys ( 20's ) are interested in you then you
must look pretty good...
2007-03-12 12:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are the guys shy? It sounds like you're actually quite pretty. And I don't think it's b/c you're smart. Do you come off too strong, or do you have a bad attitude? Maybe the guys that you flirt with aren't interested in you in that way, and just want to be friends, nothing more.
2007-03-12 13:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by Soccer Lover 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
calm down is the first thing im going to say to u....there is no reason to go crazy over not having a date. ive dated atleast 50 guys, not bcuz im a whore, but because i know how to hook them. just remember, guys arent nearly as complicated as we think they are. actually they are pretty simple...in a girl , all they want is sex. im not saying that u should give it to them or nething, but tease them a little instead of being there friend. remember, pretty & sexy are 2 totally different things. wear what u think makes u look sexy. dont worry about what your friends think, ur sure as hell not trying to attract them! learn how to give a sexy yet somewhat mysterious look at a guy that compliments your facial features. practice in the mirror if you have to. just learn what u can do to be attractive & work the hell out of it. & the only way a girl can be ugly is if she herself thinks she is. just keep telling yourself your not ugly. guys like confidence!!
2007-03-12 13:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by party_girl10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are trying to hard to get a boyfriend.
Relax and concentrate on yourself, your acedemics and the right person will come along.
Just having a boyfriend is not the answer to all ills. And by your discription of yourself I beleive you will make a wondeful lover and friend.
Just relax and stop flirting and just be friends. The guys will see you differently and then the right person will come along.
2007-03-12 13:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by Dazanix 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? It's because boys your age are not really smart when it comes to girls.
Be patient. They will grow out of it. By the time you get to college, men will be everywhere.
You're really not missing out on much by not dating a 16 year old boy! (sorry boys, but it's true!) Enjoy your time with friends. The dating will come soon enough.
2007-03-12 12:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by kelannde 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ill preface this by saying im very attached and you are FAR too young for me --- you are unique and so the guys have not found out how wonderful you are?? so what its not a race its a journey and you just dont know the destination yet or who you will travel with --- keep your standards high and you will find someone amazing --- best wishes to you
2007-03-12 12:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yea if 20 year old guys are hittin on you
then yea ur probably pretty hot
but without a picture i couldnt tell yo for certain
16 year old boys dont know what they want anyways and ur probably better off without them
so get your confidence back up and keep at it
2007-03-12 13:01:38 · answer #7 · answered by shinjo73 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably have the same problem I have guys don't know how to accept a woman who can speak her mind and say how she feels. To a man they need to feel so important and needed and if a female can let them know they can survive without them then they get unimpressed and back away.
2007-03-12 12:58:13 · answer #8 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u sound like a beautiful girl! i don't what the guys are thinking, but i think they're crazy cuz they r missing out. don't worry u will find the right guy, but just try and ask them if they want to hang out or something. as i said, the guys are missing out. u sound like a B-E-A-U-T-I-F-U-L girl. :-) ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
2007-03-12 13:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by LiveLaughLoveDance♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your guys friends are just feeling awkward because you are close to each other then suddenly you are going out with him..
also, if it's not yet your time to have bf, dont rush it..
maybe you're not yet prepared for this kind of matter..
be patient..
2007-03-12 15:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋