hey guys me again, first of thanks to all those who replied to my previous message.well i've been with my girlfriend for 4 months, and i like to consider myself a respectful, romantic, and sincere type of guy, and kind too.(not to sound all soft or anything) but its just the way i was raised. anyway i try to do all the things possible to make my baby feel special...i always hug her whenever i'm with her, i'm always kissing her on the cheek or in the lips, and constantly looking at her as if i can't keep my eyes off of her, even after 4 months. like a gentleman i always get the door for her, (sometimes she beats me to the punch though) grrr, um every now and than, in are serious moments, i look deep into her eyes to the point where she knows exactly how i feel, i sometimes caress her face and fondle with her hair, i always tell her she's beautiful or pretty every day, i write poetry and given her flowers randomly. am i milking it? or am i doing ok? or can u offer me any other pointers
2007-03-12 12:49:24 · 12 answers · asked by Ally Boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you're doing great. you sound so lovely. don't worry, relax and be yourself and you'll be an even more perfect boyfriend :-)
2007-03-12 12:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I would have broken up with you a long time ago. That is, if I would have ever started dating you. I can't handle sentimental corny guys. Treat her like a lady, do sweet things for her like bring her flowers or have her come over to a candle lit house and give her a nice back massage. Or cook her dinner and put on a movie. But poems and staring into her eyes is extremely too much. It's ok to rough house with her, and just be goofy every once in a while.
2007-03-12 13:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true gentleman. Keep up what you are currently doing! I would say just live life and be happy for now. I wouldn't really look too much in to it. If you enjoy what you do for her and she respects you and is equally considerate then there's nothing to stress over, right? Good luck!
2007-03-12 12:59:15 · answer #3 · answered by SB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman's point of view:
Sometimes we get overwhelmed by too much attention (yes, there is a such thing) be careful of overdoing it. Ease back a little (whoa boy) and see what happens. It's obvious you care deeply about her but women need space too. So be attentive but just don't overwhelm her. good luck :)
ps...
anyone would love to have a boyfriend like you...
2007-03-12 12:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're doing great...may I point out, tho, that you might be making her feel guilty. I mean, I'm sure she wishes she could do stuff for you, too. Just a suggestion, but thumbs up!
Yeah, and I agree with #1 answer above me, too.
2007-03-12 12:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by ღQueenღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your girl like it? Us girls all around the world are different. I might say I love that and the next girl might say she would hate you as a boyfriend. Just make sure you and your girl are having a good time and having fun. I hope this helps.
nicole
2007-03-12 12:52:59 · answer #6 · answered by nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're doing great! I wish I had a guy like that... Don't worry about always getting the door for her though, it's sweet but she can do it herself.
2007-03-12 12:52:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, where were you 8 years ago. lol. but seriously, you seem to be romatically in love with this girl, does she feel the same way. if so you are doing great. if not then ask her if you are being to pushy. theres never a dum question.
2007-03-12 12:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by cheryl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like wayyyyyyyyyyyy too much after four months. you trying to put her off you....you gonna be proposing next week yeah?
too full on...if that was happening to me i'd run a mile.
2007-03-12 12:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by renegadechickenhead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but you might be smothering her. You need to ask HER how she feels about all this attention....
2007-03-12 12:52:46 · answer #10 · answered by Elizabeth L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋