I've watched your Q&A's for months. Yes, I'm a Christian, and, as crazy as it may sound, I've really enjoyed your banter. Not that I agree with everything, LOL, but, I have an open mind and love learning, and you all are so much fun. I'm not a prude, I smoke and drink, etc., but, I have to be honest. Once in awhile I really, want to ask a genuine Q and am really afraid to, cuz I'm scared I'm going to be made fun of. I love God and love Jesus. I know your beliefs and how you feel, etc. Seriously now, if I wanted to ask a genuine question seeking a genuine answer, is there some sort of way I should ask in order not to receive an answer that would embarass me or receive a response that is just a blast? I'm asking this question with love and respect to all of you and hope you'll respond in the same.
2007-03-12 12:47:36 · 21 answers · asked by Phyllobates 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Laptop, Pangel and others that have responded so far... I thank you and look forward to responses. I await other answers to those I was not able to name and look forward to asking questions.
2007-03-12 12:58:24 · update #1
Additionally, and with all due respect, in so far as asking questions that are intellegent I would make every effort to do so. I would make every effort to make sure my questions were unbiased and NOT hypocritical and ask genuine questions - those seeking genuine answers - from all. I am seeking answers.
2007-03-12 13:04:33 · update #2
sweetheart
i asked this same question once
i was so scared to speak here for fear i may be hated , laughed at or even that i may offend some people
i have learned to be myself ... and i have made so many amazing friends since i done so
please be yourself , ask your questions and dont be afraid
yes you will have many disagreeing with you , yes you will have rude comments , yes you may even be hated by one or two ( i know that one well )
but those who get to know you , the real you.... will make it all worth it
enjoy ... and i look forward to seeing your questions xx
2007-03-12 12:53:53 · answer #1 · answered by Peace 7 · 10⤊ 2⤋
I think there will always be those who will make fun of your questions, but don't worry about them. Ask away and disregard the stupid responses. The internet is anonamous and some people like to take advantage of that. That leads to mean responses, but it also means that you are anonamous so there is no need to get embarresed by any question you ask.
Ask and take what you want. You will find that you learn a whole lot, and you may even strengthen your faith. There is a chance that you will change your point of view though so don't get too upset when a position doesn't conform to your belief.
Have a great day.
2007-03-12 19:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by ɹɐǝɟsuɐs Blessed Cheese Maker 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am honestly disappointed you are afraid to ask a 'genuine' question. While many of us can have an 'edge' to our humour, I would hope that genuine will be met with genuine.
The problem is I can't guarantee that you won't get any stupid answers at all. That, unfortunately, is the nature of Y!A R&S. Anybody can (and often does) post.
So the best I can do is say 'ask away'. And I shall give you my assurance that if I answer it will be as polite and helpful as I can make it. And in line with my silly 'Be Excellent to Each Other' credo.
I hope that helps. Please do ask your question.
.
2007-03-12 20:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by Nobody 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You succeeded with this question, you can do it with others.
The gang has pretty much said it all already, and very well, except for one thing.
Keep in mind that a lot of what Christians feel is mocking is just a sense of play and irreverence. Always read a less-than-serious answer with that in mind, does the writer intend to insult or is it a bit of play and humour. If you enjoy the banter, then you can see it. Just don't forget it when it's your question.
You've gotten off to a great start. And now you have everybody's attention. (No pressure. ;-)
Peace.
2007-03-12 20:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by The angels have the phone box. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen, hon. No matter WHAT you write, you will be made fun of. Especially here.
If you make a question asking "Do you like puppies and rainbows?" people will respond with "OMG you're an asshat why would you like canine mammalia and refracted light?!? Get a life you loser!" http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Agqx20hFo_Bya9Sk8N8pSXoAAAAA?qid=20070312165733AAmIASo
It's the way of the internet. Realize you are more than welcome to flame other people as well. It is accepted and welcomed, embraced, here.
You know what I did to get over that initial fear? I wrote the most inflammatory, offensive, clearly bigoted thing I could think of. The responses were the most hilarious thing I have ever seen posted on the internet, and I wish the board I posted it on still existed.
If you are concerned about getting serious responses, then just express that concern in the details section and people will respect you for it. Some people will still be asshats though ;p
2007-03-12 19:54:50 · answer #5 · answered by dmlk2 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Most of the regulars here try to be helpful. I was a christian before I was an atheist and I remain a caring human being. I have given legitimate answers to people with what I saw as legitimate questions from someone who was looking for a confirmation gift to someone who was wondering what an Episcopal service was like. I have also tried to give caring advice to people who seemed to be troubled.
Ask and it shall be given. Seek and ye shall find.
2007-03-12 20:06:14 · answer #6 · answered by Dave P 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out is go ahead and post your question. There will be flak from the radicals, but you can have some hope that someone may give you an intelligent answer. Certainly, I shall try to do so if I see it, but with the thousands of questions active in the database, it is impossible to see all of them. If you care to see my answer to any such, send me a note via avatar, and I can follow the link to your question.
2007-03-12 20:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm genuniely sorry that you feel you'd get blasted. Honestly, sometimes the blasting that people take really rubs me the wrong way and I feel so badly. I know it comes from both sides, but I can't help but feel a little responsible when Atheists are involved.
I dunno what your question is but first, you can email me and I can ask it if that makes you more comfortable.
In general, I think you should ask it yourself. And just state right in the line: Serious question:
The vast majority will respect that. For those who don't, just ignore em. There will always be smartasses. (Did those smart asses evolve to be that way, or were they intelligently designed?)
2007-03-12 19:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by Laptop Jesus 2.0 5 · 9⤊ 0⤋
(I'm not exactly a regular here, but I think I might be able to help a bit.)
As long as you don't ask a question that is either close-minded or hypocritical, you shouldn't receive too many mocking answers. Just respect everyone else's beliefs and you should be good to go.
Good luck with your future questions!
2007-03-12 19:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by Nanashi 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hi Shari,
I'm one of the regulars that hangs out with the people you mention above.
When I first got here, I was a bit intimidated to ask a question as well. Then, I got over it. There are ALWAYS going to be people who make fun of your belief (or non-belief) no matter what. But, the people you've mentioned (especially Pangel, omg she is the sweetest person EVER) are all really good at supporting those who represent themselves with sincerity.
Feel free to ask away.
Hugs and blessings!
Kallan
2007-03-12 19:56:32 · answer #10 · answered by Kallan 7 · 8⤊ 1⤋
Shari,
I know you didn't invite me but I would like to say that the responses are very good so far. Attempt to be courteous and allow everyone to answer from Their Own Perspective on your question and you should get a number of great answers without too many negatives. Have a great evening!
Eds
2007-03-12 19:56:19 · answer #11 · answered by Eds 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋