To tell your boyfriend your pregnant??? I am really worried about telling him and that he will get mad I am only 15 and I don't know how to tell him without him getting mad.
I am really hoping to tell him soon or would it be better not to tell him???
I have already told my parents and they want me to have the baby his parents won't kill him or anything but I just don't know how HE will take it.
2007-03-12 12:35:53 · 10 answers · asked by Kally 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I don't understand if your comfortable to lay down with him what would be the reason that you don't know how to tell him that your pregnant? Tell him now rather than later because he might assume if you told him later on that it's someone elses baby. Just think at least you told your parents so if your afraid he's going to break up with you then don't worry your parents have your back.
2007-03-12 12:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by missingNYC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sooner the better so that you guys can get past it and he can start figuring out what this means for him. I made the mistake of waiting to tell my bf and he resented not knowing...esp since I told all my friends first so he felt like he was one of the ppl who should've known and he was the only one that didn't. Just sit him down and tell him point blank and you could start with something like "we should've been more careful" don't try to place blame with either one of you. You did it together so it's both of your consequences not just one persons. He shouldn't be mad, he might act mad, but he's just upset and that's how guys express it. Give him a few minutes to process it and then tell him that you already told your parents and they are willing to help you with the baby, but that he's the person you really want to be okay with this or something to that effect. Just don't use the line I did..."Just wanted to let you know before you start f---ing your new girlfriend, that I'm pregnant" (we broke up right before I knew for sure and I hadn't wanted to say anything b/c I didn't want to stay together right then since we were fighting a lot. We're now happily married though so don't worry about what goes on in the next lil while just get through it as well as you can.
2007-03-12 13:41:43 · answer #2 · answered by A W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt matter if you want this baby it really doesnt matter look at it this way if he stands by you then well done you actually managed to find a guy that was brought up to deal with his responsibilities if not the you just found out that you boy friend is a moron and you can do without scum like that around your baby anyway honey my mother always tells my brother if you aint got protection hand pocket or mouth you dont stand by that then you damn well better stand by your girl and your baby lets hope you boyfriend shares that lind of philosophy
I do however think your very young to be having children and it may take sometime for him to come to terms with the news
But you have the support of your family at your age thats he main thing
2007-03-12 13:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by infinate_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 15 and I don't know how old he is, but don't you think you should've thought about this ahead of time? How are you going to suppor the child or are your parents. If you already know how he is going to react why are you so worried. If he walks, like I'm pretty sure he will, then what are you going to do? Kids today are quick to become adults, but act like the children they are when adult problems are thrown at them. You get what you deserve.
2007-03-12 15:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him, just sit him down and tell him, if he loves you than he will stick around...if not forget him hes a jerk and congrats but at the same time im sorry your only 15 im a year younger and i can't imagine having a baby your so brave
2007-03-12 16:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by Melly. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your way too young to have a baby!! OMGOSH! Why weren't you using protection? Just think high school, college for BOTH of you are done for. :(
I would tell him, but don't be surprised if he doesn't want to accept it and runs! ;(
2007-03-12 12:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by boxerlover_96 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Children having children. Your parents should be having kittens.
2007-03-12 13:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
too young!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Tell him!!!! Good Luck! Make sure you can take care of the baby!!!!
2007-03-12 12:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by [S-More] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he shouldn't get mad it is mostly his fault any way he the one who nutted in you!!!!!!
2007-03-12 13:12:05 · answer #9 · answered by Mommie of 3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey.... .let's get married.
2007-03-12 12:39:33 · answer #10 · answered by phamy76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋