My brother had this girlfriend she is the tipicall nice girl, sweet, pretty, hard working, decent and a good student, not a party girl, doesn´t drink, doesn´t smoke, etc. Now my brotherwon a scholarship to get his masters degree in Mexico, so they tried to keep the relationship going, but it didn´t work out, I have to mention they were tougether for 6 years.They broke up in November and she told everyone she was devastated and really sad, etc, but in January she already had a new boyfriend, my brother is devastated and I´m confused, can you get over a guy who was your boyfriend for 6 years in two or three months? Now this new guy is filty rich and he parties a lot he´s the opossite of my brother who is the guy next door: responsible, hard worker, good student, etc. So do you think her new relationship is going to last? My brother is devastated, really depressed, I think that if she truly loved him she would have waited for him, he will only be gone for 18 months, I´m I right or not?
2007-03-12 12:29:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on her personality. First of all, a girl like you describe is going to be coveted by A LOT of guys, so there will always be temptation. Second, she might have the type of personality that needs to have the security of a relationship. In that case, 18 months would be too long for her.
The first boyfriend after an 6 year relationship doesn't have much chance. he's often the rebound guy.
2007-03-12 12:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, he shouldn't expect her to sit around for 18 months when it is very possible that he could have met someone too. He should have made arrangements for her to come, or gone to school somewhere closer. Some people don't find it extremely hard to move on after a little while. My mom's husband died and they were madly in love, like soulmates in love, and she was dating within a month. It depends on the personality. She has a personality that can't do without a boyfriend at any time. It's her choice. I'm sure she did really love him, but she didn't do anything wrong.
2007-03-12 12:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be dating this guy to get over your brother not because she wants to be mean. And you were not part of the relationship so you dont know what was really going on. Maybe they grew apart because of the distance. Maybe they were having problems and your brother didnt tell you. So you have a right to be upset and so does your brother but dont judge people because you have not walked in her shoes....
2007-03-12 12:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by Lovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋