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there's this girl in my PE class, we only meet when we're running on the track. i don't know anything about her, except her name, which is in the back of her shirt. I also got this weird voice (some people say i sound like bruce lee), plus i also got this foreign accent, but me and her are the same race, except she was born here, while i was born in the Philippines (yes, we're both filipinos). pls. help

2007-03-12 12:27:52 · 11 answers · asked by cool&laid-back 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

i'm only 14 and i ain't good at striking a conversation (i'm more of a quiet type guy)

2007-03-12 12:40:12 · update #1

11 answers

My boyfriend that I went out with for 3 years, didnt know my whole name. We were both from Argentina and he was born here. (in USA)
So yeah....he didn't have the courage to ask me out so one day I put him in the situation that he would have to ask me out, so I think you should go and ask her before you are put into a situation where you would regret asking her first.

She will love the attention.
Don't worry about your accent. Most girls go crazy for it (as my boyfriend did for mine), but it's not about your voice...It's about if you really like this girl or not.
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Option B:
Make sure she knows who you are, even though you don't know who she is fully. If she knows who you are, it will be easier for her to get to know you.

2007-03-12 12:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by Corona & Lime <3 2 · 0 0

omg really? i'm half filipino! Born in America. Sorry got carried away.. lol. Anyway, Maybe you should go talk to her, I mean you barely know the girl, so you should. Your voice really shouldn't matter. But you should ask her like "What time did you get for running 4 laps?" if you time when you run etc. If you have her in any other classes, you can ask about homework, maybe you should even show off because girls like that. She definately will notice you if you show off.

2007-03-12 12:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

1. Get yourself out there and let the world know you're available! Maybe the girl you're crushing on is crushing on you too, but thinks you're taken. Drop hints that you like her or just bluntly say so. Get involved in activities. Girls like guys that are doing things - especially sports. And on the plus side, if you join a school team, more girls will notice you so you have more options.
2. Be bold. Girls always like confidence, so tell her what you have to say. There is always a time for subtleties later.
3. Humor is always a great way to win over girls. By doing this you make that special someone feel more comfortable around you. Try to avoid dirty jokes and such (ie, jokes that your guy friends would find funny), and mostly go on wit and quips.
4. Be romantic and sweet to her.
5. Be yourself. Girls like boys who are themselves. And make sure you know the girl! While girls appreciate an honest boy, if who "you" are is not what the girl is into, you're not going to get very far...If she won't like you for who you truly are, she's not worth it.
6. Dig up any information you can find out about her. Search for her hobbies, interests, music she listens to, friends she likes, etc. Just understand her general style and adapt to it. The first thing a girl looks at is a guy's style.
7. Talk to her about stuff she is interested in - such as music she likes. Most importantly, try to get her to talk about herself, then build on that. People are naturally more comfortable talking about themselves anyway. Think of it as an opportunity to find out more about this girl so you can determine if you want to pursue her further. Also, if you are stuck on some conversation starters, remember the two starters that always seems to work: food and weather. Be funny and crack a joke every now and then or tell a girl an embarrassing story, but don't gossip! Most girls hate guys who gossip, but love guys who are funny.
8. Call her and ask to hang out. If you get to know each other better you may end up going out or you may end up realizing she wasn't the girl for you anyways.
9. Always be polite. Take into consideration the girl's feelings.
10. Be a gentleman. Open the door for her, pull out her chair before she sits down, don't interrupt, etc. Those things show a poised, graceful man, and girls like that. You can't act like you do around your male friends.
11. Compliment her. Just make sure that you are sincere, don't just make something up- if you look for something that really makes you like her, she'll know that you're interested in getting to know her better. Also, know the right ways to compliment. Some girls like it if you say "DAAAAMMMNNN!!" when they walk into the room, but some would be really offended. To be safe, be nice, cute, and above all, not creepy. Leering is a definite turn-off.
12. Don't be too clingy. Give her space.

there's more at wikihow such as "how to sweep a girl off her fett" and much more tips

2007-03-12 12:40:19 · answer #3 · answered by Alisha M 2 · 0 0

Start by saying "Hi", then talk about something you have in common or asking her to go out on a run with you sometime. Build from there.

2007-03-12 12:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by comicards 6 · 0 0

just say hey find a way that you can strike up a conversation with her like if shes reading a magazine say somethin on the subject of it. Introduce yourself and just conversate w/ her. most importantly BE YOURSELF. dont let your voice hinder you from talking to someone who knows she may look beyond that and begin to like you

2007-03-12 12:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by jengurl89 2 · 0 0

Just say Hello and ask a question about her. (People enjoy talking about themselves.) This way you can find something you both have in common and start a conversation on that topic.

2007-03-12 12:31:28 · answer #6 · answered by frozenpancake582 4 · 0 1

Go up to her and how ask how she is doing then tell her you like to get to know her better and ask her for her number

2007-03-12 12:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by magiqboi 2 · 0 0

kewl. so...i think yall should talk about bands yall like, favorite foods, her family, stuff like tht. hope this helps.

2007-03-12 13:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by Lolly 4 · 0 0

when u c her at track tell her
"are u tired ....(wait 4 responce) cuz u been running thru my mind all day"


(sp*)

2007-03-12 12:32:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

just take a deep breath and walk up to her and said hi how are you doing.

2007-03-12 12:31:54 · answer #10 · answered by leslie_peete 2 · 0 1

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