I always had feelings for her?

Question

OK this is a weird one.
This girl i knew from high school; Were both single and we still talk on the phone, we always kept in contact and the funny thing is she saw me at the time when i was going out with my ex, it has been over between me an my x for 3 years now but she saw us together and when my eyes met her i realized something that i loved her and wanted to be with her
, but at the time she was going out with some guy.
Now were both single and we talk long hours on the phone and we ask each other real good questions and so far she said she likes me so far and i confessed to her my feelings how i always liked her, now here is the problem she lives in michiggan and i am in NJ and i am sure this is who God wanted me to be with all along.
I feel this cheesy magic between us lol.. Just thinking about it makes me feel valnurable and i can tell her anything and just be myself and she herself also plus he parents have always liked me .so WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Answer 1

bite the bullet and just go for it what have you got to lose

Answer 2

Dude! My wife lived in Washington State and I lived in Indiana when we decided to make the commitment to be together. We will be celebrating our 6th wedding anniversary in June and we are expecting our 1st child in September.

Here are your options.

1. Someone moves. Either you to her, her to you or both of you somewhere else.

OR

2. Lose her again. It might not happen right away but one of you will move on, long distance relationships don’t last for extended periods of time.

It's that simple. If you truly feel she could be the love of your life isn't it worth the risk? If either of you have work or school commitments then you need to figure it out but if you don't have anything holding you down. Go for it.

Best case scenario you have a relationship with the woman of your dreams and it's the best thing ever.

Worst case scenario you spend some time with the girl you've always wanted to date and decide it's not for you and you move on.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Continue to talk to her. Visit her when you can. As this relationship progresses, then one of you will have to make the decision to move. This can usually easily be decided logically. Who can get a job in a new place easier? Who owns a house, etc.? Those decisions will come easier when the time comes that you two decide you want to be together all of the time.

Answer 4

Go for it. My friend started a relationship with a girl back at his home in PA but he lives in South Carolina. He's in love with her and they talk all the time and go on aim. He goes to visit her and she comes to visit him numerous times. A relationship is a two sided road where both have to work together. See what happens if you try it. What else have you got to lose?

Answer 5

I can't really say I know what to say to her. Just come out with is so to speak. Tell her your feeling, tell her what you were feeling when she was with the other guy and even if you want to be really truthful tell her about the "cheesy magic" you feel when you talk to her.

Answer 6

tell her how you feel. she sound like she could be 'the one' if you even believe in that stuff. but seriously, she sounds like a special lady & it's rare to connect with another person that way. i'd say tell her & find a way to spend time together. who knows? she may move to NJ for you. :-) good luck

Answer 7

unless one of you wants to move then keep her as a friend. i know from experience that long distance relationships don't work and its better to have a great friend for life than a relationship that might not last.

Answer 8

Ain't nuthin cheesy about love, honey. Keep communicating. If you're supposed to be together, you'll know what to do. You won't be able to help it.

Answer 9

Get your *** over there! If only for a weekend, see how the chemistry goes and take it from there.

Answer 10

Tell her how you feel. It wont be easy, but it will be the best thing you've ever done.