ok so my best friend Robin loves to play match maker... and she matched me up with aaron [[a guys son she knos]] and neways... well me him my friends kelci and her b/f and Robin and her husband are all going bowling friday or saturday night [[i unno which yet]] and weve seen pics of each other but i am so super shy and so is he says robin [[and she was rite about him b'n cute lol]] but i will be so nervous coz we will offically be a couple coz he will ask me out and bla bla bla says her so i unno wat to do b/c i am like SO shy and i will be nervouse and i dont know what to say to him or how to start a conversation with him or anything so i am like so totally in trouble and nervous and super excitded all at the same time... so i need some help with covo starters, wat to wear, what to say, and ect.... ladies u can help if uve been match maked b4 and guys who are shy wat r sum things to get u talkin to someone new........................................plz plz plz help!!!!!! plz??!??!?!?!
2007-03-12 12:22:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and dont go and say stuff like o dont be nervous if it works out it will if it dont then it wont if u want chosen best answer or jus to help give me REAL ADVISE!!! thank u soooo much!!!!
2007-03-12 12:23:47 · update #1
and when i say im shy i mean im SUPER shy like very very very shy lol... so i have theeee worst time talkin to sumone i jus met and i think i am goin crazyyy lol an di will be crazy till i meet him which will be in like 5 or 6 days from now!!! o no i will be crazy all week lol =]=]=] but no really i am so shy its hard to believe...
2007-03-12 12:39:30 · update #2
lol i no how you feel just chill and go with the flow let him start the convo and follow on from there just wear something nice like a pair of jeans and a nice top there will be other people there as well so conversation will flow very easy good luck : )
2007-03-12 12:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Conversation starters, ask him what he does for fun in his spare time, does he have a hobby, what does he want to do for a career in future, what is he studying, who is his best friend and why did he choose him, does he like movies and books, which ones and is he into comedy, si fi, horror, drama documentaries. If he is super shy and you ask him out don't be shot down if he refuses there are a million reasons he may do this, embarassed in front of friends, not ready, has a g/f already, is interested in someone else or may be gay? But if he says yes go for a coffee or ask him if he will join you for a coffee. Is there a subject in school you need help with and can he help you. As for what to wear, dress casual but neat and comfortable, if you are not comfortable then u will get nervous. Take care Heather
2007-03-12 12:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww you seem sweet and I know some people like you and I have helped them before. Compliments (as long as they don't sound too fake) are always a good conversation starter- they make you look nice and they put the guy at ease by making him a little more comfortable in his own skin. (he could be shy too!) Talk about things currently going on in your life (what movie did you last see, what book are you reading, a sport that you play, etc.) and ask him similar questions about his life in return (do you play a sport? did you see that movie? etc.) While he is answering, (listen to what he's saying of course, and be polite and act interested of course) but think of another question you could ask him that relates to what he's saying. (Oh really, how long have you been playing soccer?, Yea it was a good book- have you read _______? It is written by the same author---etc.) Mastering the art of conversation takes experience- but in the mean time, stay calm and enjoy yourself! Don't freak out if you get stuck on what to say- I'm sure that this guy will like you better if you are shy but fun to be around than if you are overly nervous. You'll be fine, I'm sure of it!
2007-03-12 12:33:09 · answer #3 · answered by Daisy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okkkk chill out, you cant be that shy, your going crazzzyyy lol..well first off if you want to feel comftorable with him and the setting so dont overtop it. Your going bowling, so that will give you an excuse to go for the casual look and possibly throw some fun accessories to bring more attention out. Definitley go for the comftorable look;) Now when your with him you will def know if hes worth the conversation. If you guys are connecting than the convo will come naturally so dont worry. Try to stay on subjects that you are intersted in bc you can easily make a fool out of yourself. Dont put yourself to out there, make sure he does his part. Dont be nervous and if you are it will show so be careful and have fun! Good Luck :)
2007-03-12 12:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by quoia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be nervous its only a date be yourself. Don't put to much thought into this date you will make yourself sick. When you meet him say hello(of course) shake his hand, then put him on the hook!!!! Be the first one to say "tell me about yourself" That will break the ice and get you off the hook of talking about yourself first. Now as for your outfit wear something casual and comfortable(you are going bowling) but make sure your blouse is low cut ( show a little cleavage) so when you are bending over to pick up your bowling ball(make sure your facing him) give him a little peek of the TWINS!!!!! Good luck hopefully things will go wonderful and you will be marrying this guy next year!!!!! It could happen!
2007-03-12 12:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by sayj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might positioned money right into a tazer, gun, or knife. Or all 3. I carry a knife with me in any respect circumstances, in spite of the place i'm or what i'm doing. i do no longer stay in too undesirable of a community, yet we've had our honest share of rapes, murders, kidnappings, and muggings. while you're no longer comfortable wearing weaponry, or would not experience any safer, you ought to purchase a treadmill for him to stroll on. Ugh. Thats so undesirable. Its a tragic and pathetic international while all people is scared to leave their residences because of the fact violence is the only ingredient that appeases stupid and ignorant human beings. be sure you're locking up at evening too, and via the day too. make stronger bolt locks and abode windows, lock down something that could desire to be stolen, sleep with a shielding weapon of your determination, workout warning while leaving the abode or driving on your community. Run over all people that tries to quit your motor vehicle.
2016-10-02 00:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So put some nice clothes like nice slacks or jeans depending where your going and a nice shirt. Depending how tall he is wear either boots or flat shoes, If you get to know how tall he is wear shoes accordingly. Don't want to be too tall for him. "Not unless it's me, I love tall women", lol. ALso try not wearing too much make up and don't go to hard on the perfume. Also when you meet him just say " HI, How's your day going?" and take it from there. And enjoy the day or night and don't worry just be yourself and let him know your there to chat with him.
2007-03-12 12:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill! breathe! you don't have to be a couple with him until you know him! as to what to say, when I talk to a guy for the first time, I like to ask what music and bands they listen to since im a major music junkie. then i ask about their hobbies and tell them about mine. If we have the same hobbies ill talk to him about that. If we have differences i ask why he likes that and what's fun about it. or maybe ask about movies and all that sort of thing. The important thing is to have fun! he's never met you before so he has no judgement of you! make sure it's a kool, laid back impression he gets!
2007-03-12 12:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by Raven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are over 21 you need to grow up. You talk to a guy about this you enjoy and socialize. If you are young then you have some maturing to do before you start dating.
2007-03-12 12:28:09 · answer #9 · answered by Lovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL i know wut she said:to the 2nd guy or whoever. if u r young u should tell your friend to say something if u r a teen u need to grow up and start acting like it. if u r like an adult u should work on being shy cause u will get nowhere in life being THAT shy. hope it helps G/L
2007-03-12 12:38:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋