How should I approach this?

Question

I wrote this guy a note and had my sister give it to him. Thing is, it was a "crush" at first sight for me. I don't think he knows who I am or what I look like. I wrote my classes and locker number down so he could give me his reply but..I'm wondering if I shouldn't just get the guts to go up and actually talk to this guy. If I do, what should I say?

Answer 1

I don't know how old you are, but it's never to early to be responsible for your actions...heck yes! If you think he has the makings of being a great guy...go and tell him so! At the very least he'll be flattered and you may end up with a new friend!

Answer 2

Hmmm. Go ahead and approach him...although if he does not know you wrote the letter...then don't tell him. Men are not complex like us ladies, so you might want to try the forward approach...although to play it safe find out what his interests are and see if you might want to be involved too. Make friends with him through these "interests". All good things take time, so give this friendship some time and if all goes well it just might turn into something more. Good Luck to you!

Answer 3

Get the guts!! Trust me, when you are older you will have wished you did. Oh, if only I could go back knowing what I know now. Remember, you cannot relive your youth when you get older. What you did was sweet and touching, and if I was the guy, I would be flattered. Just try going to the dude and say Hi, did you get my note? He will be on the spot and you will have your answer, good luck!

Answer 4

If you already had your friend pass on a note then he already knows you are interested and probably knows what you look like because he probably watched your locker. If he is just overy shy just walk up to him when you are alone and ask him if he is interested in a coffee after school. If he responds enjoy and take care, if he doesn't then he is not ready, not attracted to you or already involved with someone else. Heather

Answer 5

If he doesn't know who you are, well I think you should have just went up and talked to him. Because if you don't do that, he will be like, "I don't know who she is, but she likes me." You should make a good impression on him, so he won't just throw the note out when he reads it.=)

Answer 6

yeaa u shudd go up to him and talk to him, i used to be like that, i couldnt talk to guysz i liked, buht one day i finally did, nd turnsz out it wasnt all that bad, if he has sum classes with u, as ur leaving tha class u could start off a convo like : wow class was boring today dont u think? or any other comment relating to class. just find something to say doesnt matter what it is as long as u be urself. good luck =)

Answer 7

Just start with hi and try to ask him about things that he likes. If you have gone to all the trouble of writing a letter and having your sister deliver it then you have gone to the trouble to find out his likes and dislikes. Just go up and talk to him. You'll regret it if you don't.

Answer 8

don't just come out and tell him you have a crush , just take your time and talk about other stuff that has nothing to do with what you are thinking about, and once you get to know him better, he will tell you that he likes you, the girl is never the first one to say they like you. once he does know you exists and knows you a little better, then once he relays something like, "your cool" or even "your nice", this is the signal to tell him something back, like" i think your cute, too", or " i think your cool too", then invite him for lunch or something.

Answer 9

Honestly i think it would be better if you just went up and talked to guy, i think maybe you would ear more respect with him and it would show that you have confidence.

Answer 10

talk to him. most times you won't get truthful answers from siblings. while talking, just start off w/ small talk and carry on from there