ok well my over the weekend i was thinking and i felt like i didnt like my crush anymore. i didnt feel the same about him. the reason why is for like 6 months i have been trying 2 let this guy know i like him but he never understoof them and he liked (or likes still) me so i kept thinking he would ask me out and nevr did. so i was upset and thought it was my fault for wasting my time with him in the first place and i said forget abou him. Dont talk 2 him or anything. So i get 2 school i didnt pay any attention 2 him untill spainish. i started to walk slow trying 2 wait for him like i usually did to talk 2 him. and then at lunch time he started 2 talk 2 me and i was talking 2 him and that wasnt what i planned So should i keep trying 2 get him 2 understand or forget about him. if i should get over him how? at the end of the day i did not wait for him like usual or talked 2 him. Sometimes i want 2 talk to him and sometimes i do. is it right or wrong. I really dont want 2 say it with words
2007-03-12 12:04:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
um yeah. ur wasting ur time.... stop playing urself, do you really want to be someone that wishy-washy? ew.
2007-03-12 12:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by tata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt really understand any of that mate but erm ill try 2 answer it. Erm look mate it all comes dwn 2 how you feel about him. If you dont like him anymore move on!!! Thats all it is.. dont waste your time, trying 2 find out how he feels about you or how you feel about him cause really it sounds like you dont know what the hell you want. So move on meet other guys, the night is young,your young your only in high school trust me high school crushes dont last ... you'll meet other guys and you'll be like so & so who????
So... do us all a favour and move on OK!!!
I hope that helped cause it definitely did me ;)
Good Luck & All the best
Email me if you wna talk some more ;0
2007-03-12 19:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time going after this guy. You remind me of myself when I was a bit younger. It turned out that the guy didn't really like me. I hope this is not the case with you. Maybe the guy likes you but is waiting for you to make the move....yah never know. But like I said, don't waste your time going after him. By now he should know that you like him or at least notice him. He has to make the next step. Let him pursue you if he wants you. If you stop talking to him and he acts like you don't exist...forget about him completely. It's very difficult to get over crushes. Just try to think of other things, hang out with friends, do stuff to take your mind off of him. Now that you are losing feelings for him...let them go while you have to chance before you get too head over heels for him. My motto is...always prepare for the worst!
2007-03-12 19:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by Silent Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen,
Its obvious that you like this guy very much...so just enjoy your friend ship with him for now.
If it turns out he cares more about you...then in time he will let you know.
Some guys are slow to show how they feel, but in time they will show it. Meanwhile, I suggest you spend this current time to get to know him better as a good friend so that if it doesn't turn out right then well you haven't lost much...at least you made a friend.
2007-03-12 19:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by Dazanix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So how would you talk to him...like, thru your nose? If you don't feel the same way about your crush, then don't you think the lights have, like, dimmed? I mean, if you mean sometimes you feel like you like him and other times not so much, I understand...I guess. You're kinda confusing.
I'd just be friends with him and let it slowly progress from there.
2007-03-12 19:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by ღQueenღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not keep him as a friend that sounds like what he is to you at the moment and it does not look like he wants more than that ---- best wishes
2007-03-12 19:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋