we still arnt talkin tht much..like hi and yea but not like talkin..and he's the one tht broke up with me.. and i still like him.. think we will eva go back out?
2007-03-12 12:00:38 · 27 answers · asked by blondie_witha_brain 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate it when it's one-sided. My boyfriend broke up with me about a week ago and I just feel empty. He said we are "good friends" now, but I don't see it. I asked if we would ever be together and he said that he didn't think so.
If he doesn't have the same feelings for you, then he probably never will. Life makes some hard turns and you just have to adjust. I know it's hard. You both need space. He might realize that he does love you.
You never know.
Good luck.
2007-03-12 12:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, no maybe so?! It all depends on the situation. I've gone out with my ex for 3 years on and off until we finally hit a wall. Silence and awkwardness is natural. I am feeling something similar right now and the silence is killing me. The avoidance and awkwardness when all I want is to be normal again, whatever that is. If you care about him then get over him. Odd to say but its the truth. Dwelling in your own sarrow will only make you come off as emotionally unstable and weird. I don't say stop caring or saying hi and being friends. But don't worry so much about him. Its hard I know but take it one day at a time and hopefully you will either find someone new, or he'll realize that you are the girl he is after, after all :D Good luck and take faith!
2007-03-12 12:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by TechPhox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dealing with the heartache of losing at love is always very difficult. When you still care - it takes a long time to let go - but let go you must.
There's always that sappy saying about letting love go free - and if it is really yours, it will return to you... but it's the letting go and dealing with them NOT returning ...that's difficult and painful.
Just remember - if you walk everywhere looking back - you'll run into a lot of walls. ...Equally sappy, I know - but true.
Take the time to focus on you and your own healing. Be with your friends. Pursue your hobbies and interests. Try to make new friends. ...but pay your ex as little attention as possible. Your absence might make him realize what he lost - or it may open the opportunity for someone far better to enter your life. Either way, you'll be moving forward.
Please take care of you. I'm sorry for your loss.
--Peace.
2007-03-12 12:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by Depoetic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't your age and the circumstances...hopefully this will help a little.
I am assuming that both of you are very young.
I do my answer from your boyfriends standpoint. Young girls get emotionally attached to guys relatively quickly. Young guys don't. They don't have the (heartaches) of emotions.
They just play the field and move on with a new, pardon the expression, "victim".
I can tell you one thing...your first love...will always be in your heart!
Hang in there. Your sadness will subside as time goes by.
Bob P.
2007-03-12 12:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by bob P11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he suddenly wakes up one morning with a heart heavy of love for you, I doubt that will happen. You just need to allow yourself time to heal and move on. Break ups are never easy--especially when you still have an emotional attachment to your ex.
2007-03-12 12:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by Rewind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if he broke up with u that means that he didnt want u in the first place he justed wanted to get sum and if u dont bleave me than sorry if he dont talk to u anymore just move on he was probebly cheating on u its not like u are gonna marry him anyways so just let it go and find a man thats going to ask u out
2007-03-12 12:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by Michael A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there was a reason the two of you broke up, chances are things haven't changed. I would suggest that you simply let him go and move on. There are plenty of other fish out there.
2007-03-12 12:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by PlanJam.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, well, I can't say cuz none of us really know you. But if I were you, I'd confront him and tell him that you still have feelings for him and ask him why ya'll broke up again and, um, guess that's all I have to give ya. Good luck.
2007-03-12 12:03:44 · answer #8 · answered by ღQueenღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately, no. if he can't even establish a basic friendship with you, then probably not. maybe if you guys become friends again, you can go out again, but i can't promise anything.besides, maybe when you become friends you'll have moved on. don't go chasing after him, cuz then you'll just lose his friendship forever. if he realizes he made a mistake, he'll come back on his own, and if all else fails, if fate wants you to be together, it'll happen.
2007-03-12 12:05:14 · answer #9 · answered by fateless wanderer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breakups are never easy. It's still a new breakup. I recommend looking for other people do date. It's possible you can go out again, but then he could just break up with you again.
2007-03-12 12:04:01 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋