I'm 15, almost 16, years old, and have never had a real boyfriend. I'm shy, and tend to have a hard time talking to people's faces. I get super nervous and feel like I'm going to faint.
For the second time now I have been talking to this guy online. The first time didn't work out. This guy I have been talking to is 18 years old, and has had experience before, with a girl who I kind of need to be friends with, otherwise I will be alone on this trip that I'm going on. She doesn't really talk to me much, but I don't want her mad at me or anything if I date her ex.
I'm not really sure what to do. The guy seems so sure and he's all I love you so much and stuff..but we barely know eachother. We haven't even been on a real date. Plus, not a whole lot of people at school like him, he hangs out with the druggies. And he has a sister about my age I'm friends with her, kinda. She constantly says hes dumb. He just moved out of his parents house, which doesnt help either.
Help please!
2007-03-12 11:55:04 · 9 answers · asked by blueskylvr7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um he doesnt love you at all. He just wants to do you hard! haha My sister thinks she is in love with every guy she dates, but once she sleeps with them they all dump her and HARD!
I know you probably wont listen to me, but after you get hurt a couple of times or probably alot you will begin to realize those guys only wanted one thing out of you, and thats S E X.
And you gave it to them, where you then lose all respect to them and their friends. The torture the rumours, and comments will haunt you til your graduate.
DONT GO FOR THIS GUY!! He is bad bad news babe. Please get far far away from him
2007-03-12 11:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your still a kid, its on-line and not safe, and you seem to be the perfect target for abuse; shy, not talkative, and looking for attention' easy to influence. But if your still going to try it you may as the ex why she is an ex, and if she is a friend she will warn you against this.
2007-03-12 12:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by shocker83_fear_me23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF he hangs out with druggies I dont think it would be a good idea for you to go out with him. Just wait and youll find someone better
2007-03-12 11:58:15 · answer #3 · answered by G-Uniter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy....it doesn't sound very good at all. You're only 15 and the story you're telling about him isn't pretty. Get away from this guy. (Advice from an older experienced person)
2007-03-12 12:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by freedove06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of, but be-careful don't let him make you become a druggie as well.
2007-03-12 11:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm....ofcourse guys most of them.....are good...very good only at the beginning of the relationship BUT IF THEY GET WHAT THEY WANT.....hahahah...your sorry and bye bye to you...
well it all depend dear oky....beside do you know whats the reason of their break up?? cuz that the chance of you to GET TO KNOW THE REAL "HIM"....
about your friend i know she will feel bad....but thats her past...is not like your trying to still her boyfriend......thats her ex so it means its up to him and you
2007-03-12 12:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not date him kinda old & friends b/4 boyfriends
2007-03-12 12:00:35 · answer #7 · answered by spencer c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a goodie-goodie, maybe a dangerous guy like him isn't in it for you!
2007-03-12 11:58:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no..... get away...he's no good.... Sure you've heard it all before maybe this time you will listen......
2007-03-12 12:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by loving U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋