I just moved & after moving I met this guy. & from when I first met him, I just disliked him. I had no good reason for not liking him I was disgusted by the way he acted, he thought he can get any girl he wanted. I later found out that he was in the clique of people that I began to hang around.We started to become friends after and I realised that hes a pretty good guy. The thing is though we fight about everything. Him &I can not go five minutes without fighting. We bicker about the stupidest things like were some old married couple. If he says something I dont like or I give him a 'bad face' we begin to argue. I dont know why we fight, its not like i'm trying to fight with this guy. Its really starting to get on my nerves now though, i duno WHY we fight. After we fight, we give eachother a hug& say sorry and continue being friends, until the next fight. We have held hands before & stuff. & i feel sumthin strong for him. i just duno if its hating him or liking him what do u think?
2007-03-12 11:52:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think this situation is reflective of a great deal of sexual tension. . . Maybe you both like each other but can't find a way to make that okay in your daily lives. . . Just a thought.
2007-03-12 11:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by septsecret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there is some respect and sincere friendship going on otherwise you wouldn't make up and continue to be friends. Although you disagree about alot you both evidently put some value on what the other says. I think what you're feeling is frustration and that can be both good and bad in a friendship or relationship. You're just gonna have to think about him and decide do you want to take a chance and move from friends into a relationship. I'm gonna say give it a try and ask him to go out sometime. Nothing ventured...nothing gained. I hope I've said something of value to you and hope it helps..Good Luck! G.
2007-03-12 19:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by G=ME 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Opposites attrack, but you have to know in your heart if he is the right one. If its silly stuff you fight about is it just the way you guys carry on? Can you both sit down and talk about it and how its starting to bother you? The most important thing in a relationship is communication. If you can't really talk to each other then there is no hope. If you can talk to each other then talk about the important stuff as well as the silly stuff. Make a rule that you are not going to argue more than once a week and see how it goes. If it continues then how on earth are you going to be able to live with him? Take care Heather
2007-03-12 19:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the exact situation with some guy. I think it is more like a love-hate relationship. You might actually have special feelings for him. I know it is very frustrating as I am going through the same thing as well. But it also strnegthens your relationship with him in various ways, especially after every fight when you two hug each other and make up. Good luck!!!!
2007-03-12 18:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened with me and my exboyfriend, we were like, best friends, but we would always bicker, my friends would say "like an old married couple" it's basically a way of getting over someone and finally being able to just flip-out on them with out worrying, just for fun, in one case, or to just have fun period, and potentially have something between you two. IF it's something constant, then it's possible, he's just trying to mess with you. and if ur having fun too, then again, potentially....
2007-03-12 19:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol..if u had posted this q 2 yrs ago...i wouldn't have been able to ans ur q...
lol..u know what...ur soooooooo much in love with this guy...n its these fights that make that bond b\w u n him so strong...fights are fun as long as u have the guts to make up with each other again n come back to normalcy...
however, this trend should confine only to petty fights than serious issues...if u think ur fallin for him, say so...n if it works..start staying together coz living under one roof changes alot...then u'll know if it was lovey-dovey fights or serious fights u cn't stand...
2007-03-12 19:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by close_in_destroy_everything 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that you like him so much that from your previous experiances with him (when you thought his actions were disguisting) you believe that being in him will not be good for you. so the reason that you fight is to prove to yourself that you dont like him when really you do. now if you didnt like him as a friend then that would be a different story but you like him and are trying to prove yourself wrong without nknowing it.
2007-03-12 18:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both have strong opinions and are prepared to discuss with vigour the fact that you are able to put that aside and still be friends is wonderful --- so enjoy your friendship and see where it leads
2007-03-12 18:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,no,no!You don;t think right!He is just testing you!He has any girl that he wants but still those girls aren't just for him and this is what he wants to know!He tests you to see if you are good enough for him!
2007-03-12 18:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u 2 could have some feelings for eachother
2007-03-12 18:56:50 · answer #10 · answered by Tati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋