Why do i still love him? My ex and had a bad break up this past year. He is 10 years older than me.?

Question

I told him to leave and he did. We stay in contact but not on a regular basis. The other week i went out with a male friend to a bar to hang out. Well, his friends saw me for the first time in a year or so and boy the phone was buzzing. Well, the ex called me up last thursday and wanted to see me. He moved about 3 hours from me. He came into town for a couple of weeks, so, i said okay. I had to go and pick him up. I got a room cause i didnt want to drive after a few drinks. I paid for the room for 3 nights and paid for everything. He had money when i picked him up and then all of a sudden he doesn't. He gets mad or defensive if i hang out with friends but the other night when i returned his call a girl answered and she new a lot about our relationship. She said they were friends, but when i questioned him over the weekend she was a girl he was seeing. I love him and want to be with him but it wont happen. How do i make myself unlove this cowboy? He is what i call tough love.

Answer 1

That is tough love. I say in order to break a bad habit; start a new one. So go out and meet new people, hang out with friends or start a new hobby and keep telling yourself positive thoughts because you're strong and you don't need all that drama. It's always hard to get over the ones we love so much but you'll get though it once you realize you deserve better.

Answer 2

Girl get over it! It sound like he move on.....and he is just using you. And he is a SELFISH JERK....I said....let the other girl have him.....and you find yourself a man that will respect you and pay for your hotel Stay.

Answer 3

Age doesn't matter unless your under 18. Do you what your heart tells you to do.

Answer 4

He is your ex - just quit him cold turkey.