ok, well my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 years now, and we have decided that we are ready to have sex. Although I was a virgin before him, he was not. I have no clue what I'm doing and I want to please him just as much as he pleases me. Can anyone offer any ideas, PLEASE?
2007-03-12 11:35:44 · 20 answers · asked by Elizabeth B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's nice that you're so into your bf that you want to have sex with him. I don't know how old you are, but to put it bluntly, anytime a guy waits 3 years to have sex with his gf will be EASY to please. If anything, I'd suggest that you take it slow and make sure you're completely relaxed and ready for it. Believe it or not, the organ that gives the greatest pleasure is the brain and the biggest satisfaction a man can get is knowing that HE pleasured his gal to the point where SHE can't wait until the next time.
Therefore, my final advice is to enjoy yourself. If you do, and let things escalate slowly but steadily, the both of you will have a great time!
2007-03-12 11:41:36 · answer #1 · answered by as90024 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been having this problem with my current virgin...
1.) Don't be shy or insecure
2.) Tell him you got this and have him lay back and enjoy while you do your thing...(fast, slow, medium paced)
3.) Enjoy yourself and make yourself feel good...he'll feel good just knowing your gettin yours.
4.) If your into it...watch a porn with him and act out your favorite scenes.
5.) Don't be afraid of kamasutra...pretty cool positions in there.
6.) Put some slow jams on and let loose.
good luck
2007-03-12 11:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by d_miano81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is any kind of guy he will take it slowly. Tell him (I'm sure he knows) that this is your first time. He will be understanding. Learning as you go along will be benificial to both of you as you can tell each other what you like and dislike. Everyone has a first time. Dont forget for your own safety have SAFE SEX
2007-03-12 11:41:44 · answer #3 · answered by itybittykitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be pro-active when necessary, especially when leading up to it. Usually, once things get started, the man will take complete control, so you'll just know when and what to do when the time comes. It comes pretty naturally, as long as you're willing to be pro-active when the time is right, and not always passive. It helps to show you care, and aren't just making him work.
2007-03-12 11:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do missionary postion, in a bed. Its very cozy. Then do tons of foreplay. Kiss him, cuddle, hug, be very close, and then guide his c*ck inside you.....
Finally when your done you'll ahve to pee when your done...trust me you WILL have to pee, theres no doubt in my mind. Mabey watch a movie together and cuddle or bring him in the bathroom as you go for a pee and tehn take a shower together. Mabey just go back to bed and talk to each other....
2007-03-12 11:44:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send some pictures...
No to be serious, you can read a book about sex, talk to friends who have had sex or just enjoy the first time. Its nice that you want to be there to please him, but the first time is all about experiencing the unknown.
2007-03-12 11:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by CJ B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slowly lick from his abdomen button to the bit the place your collar bones meet. Then merely hint little paths alongside the backside of his arm with one or 2 hands, quite tickling him, and do exactly this on his chest, abdomen and neck.
2016-10-02 00:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, go to a bookstore and look in the couples/sex section. This is something you want to learn about in public, is it?
2007-03-12 11:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont worry about it.. just do what you feel is natural and feels good... My girlfriend was a virgin before me and i have been with one other person.. I am sure he wont complain, and he will understand. Just dont worry about it
2007-03-12 11:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by ibrollin05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well firdt does hr know cause if he dont just play it cool dint look like u dont know wht this or that is lol ok and let him start it off and just like moan and kep sayin YES BABY lol or just watch a porno i dont but thats wht i was told to do lol i dont suggest it that much but yea
2007-03-12 11:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋