I cannot get a girlfriend because im part korean and half-white. No women will say yes to an Asian guy. I live in an area with no asians. So pratically no hope for me. But I never asked a girl out. Im too scared. I dont wanna do it. Im wait for a girl to ask me out. But so far nothing has happend. I even thought of becoming homosexual cause my bad luck with the girls. But so far homosexuality isnt working.
2007-03-12 11:22:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The reason you can't get a girlfriend is not because of your race. It's not the fact you're Asian.
There's only no hope when you give up.
1) Why not make friends? The best way to become more comfortable around others is to make new friends.
2) Talk to women. Learn about them. Say hi.
3) DON'T BE SO DESPERATE! That's the biggest turn off EVER.
2007-03-12 11:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun since your so scared to ask a girl out the girls can prob sense it. No girl wants a nervous guy. Show a little confidence and your luck will surely come. Make the girl you like laugh. Every girl likes a guy that can put a smile on her face. As for the homosexual thing you either are or your not and it sounds like your not so just take that out of your mind right away becuase that could be a major turn off for girls. Remember BE CONFIDENT AND MAKE THEM SMILE. Good luck!!!
2007-03-12 11:29:36 · answer #2 · answered by Meiko420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you cannot voluntarily change your sexual preference.
Second of all, the race issue is more in your head than in the real world.
Third of all, there are girls who will ask you out. I have been asked out a few times, so I know it happens.
Also, if you work on getting to know a girl that you like and then ask her if she wants to get together, you do not have to ask her out formally. That takes all the pressure off and makes it easier to spend time with a girl. That also allows the two of you to slip into dating as friends. Your relationships will last much longer that way and be much better.
Take care,
Troy
2007-03-12 11:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what your race is, it matters most about your personality and how you treat a girl. Find a girl that you have something in common with and start talking to her. Eventually you will become friends, and when you get to a point when you are comfortable, ask her out. It is important because it shows the guys character, and girls are often too shy to put their feelings out on the line to be shot down, so guys have to do that. Its a good character trait to be a gentleman to the girl you are dating/like.
2007-03-12 11:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by crusincutie38 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, just take a deep breath...inhale, then exhale and GO FOR IT! The worst that can happen is a "no". And don't take the "no" as a diss to yourself. If anything, she isn't the right one for you and one day you will find one to say yes.
And sure, it would be nice for girls to ask a guy out if they are certain. It's just the "rules" that have been brought up from generations though in the 21st century, for girls to ask a guy out no longer means that they are "desperate".
2007-03-12 11:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is just how it is.
thats the whole reason why both sexes have different roles because it can be backep up by masculinity and femininity. even if we say that traditions have definitely changed right now, this still exists.
dont be desperate. the right girl have probably not come by your way yet. and as a guy, be man enough to cope with this since you are not taking action. set your mind differently; think positive.
if you see things differently, that's ok. stand up for it and make it work. things should fall into place.
accept this norm...because its working for the rest.
2007-03-12 11:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by dazednconfused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that isn't true. plenty of girls like asian guys. i have had i crush or two on asian guys. i dont care what guys look like. i care about
1. that they are clean
2. they are fairly smart
3.they have a sense of humor (doesn't have to be funny but can laugh and have a good time)
4. is nice and always treats me and everyone else kindly
you sound nice clean smart and funny. so just start talking to girls. they want you to think you care. it really doesnt matter what you look like if you make them feel like you are concerned. myspace is a great way to talk to people. so try commenting someone. i am sure that their are girls in your area with the same criteria for a "dateable guy" in your area!
2007-03-12 11:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by frances m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know now a days both is cool. each each now and then adult men look at ladies and say she may not in any respect be into me. Asking a guy to bop is completely superb very ambitious. Why should be wait. if you're scarey about it, dance next to him with a group of your girlfriends, make eye contact, separate your self from the floor a touch and gesture for him to hitch you.
2016-12-01 21:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by talamantez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexism? traditionalism, maybe?
but, c'mon. don't go gay just because of this. any guy can find a girl, he just has to look. i'll bet that more people like you than you think.
as far as asking someone out, i know it sounds kinda corny, and you'll have to time it pretty good.
but. you get a flower (or candy) and you write a letter/note asking her out, and you strategically place it somewhere that she'll find it (ex: taped to her locker, car, etc.) then you have to wait a bit, and walk up to her right after or while she's reading it.
it works. really well.
2007-03-12 11:27:10 · answer #9 · answered by mike_gaerheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it! Have confidence, confidence makes you like 5 time hotter, and a girl will be impressed by you if you ask her instead of her asking you! Go for it, it will work out eventually, the worst she could say is no!
2007-03-12 11:26:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋