im kinda afraid of having sex what should i do is this weird
2007-03-12 11:13:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are not comfertable with it, then dont do it!
2007-03-12 11:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your age, your state of mind, and outside influences always play on a person when they decide to take the irreversible step having sex. You should always listen to your mind. Do not do something that you do not want to do, just because you are conned into thinking it is normal. Normal is relative. So follow what you feel is right, or if all else fails, get the advice of your parents. They will know what is best for you.
2007-03-12 18:20:30 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you are completely ready for it. there is no rush. it is one of the most important things to you. if u are on Yahoo! answers you are questioning it and might feel that you are not ready. theres no rush. if its the whole act of sexing... dont be afraid. it will hurt only a little bit. but only for the 1st time. just do not rush or waste it. and good luck. and i dont wanna see another post from you asking "how do i know if im pregnant?"
2007-03-12 18:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by jdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but that doesn' t really matter. You need to be completely ready and really be in love, or you will feel horrible about yourself for letting yourself do what you did. Also, then there is nothing special about that first night after you have beenmarried if you have already been sleeping with guys. I hope this helps. I'm sorry if it doesn't.
2007-03-12 18:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by crusincutie38 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your afraid then you arent ready wait for that right time and with the right person. No its not wierd to be afraid the first time or even later. Its worth waiting for and its alot better with the right person.
2007-03-12 18:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by Aaron M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are afraid of having sex, then DON'T. Wait until you are ready or better yet until you are in love and he loves you.
2007-03-12 18:17:50 · answer #6 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're afraid, don't have sex. Pretty simple. Sounds like you're not ready. It is not weird, its normal. Its your intuition saying "this is stupid, I shouldn't be having sex" Listen to it!
2007-03-12 18:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its totally understandable.... Hun just erm....try n relax... If your not comfortable then dont do it. Do it when your ready, cause it'll be better when you know your ready and tell him the reason why & if hes a gentleman he'll wait. If not hes a loser and you should dump him.
But 4 the record do it when your ready kk
2007-03-12 18:19:30 · answer #8 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not weird... It's your body telling you your not ready yet... Having sex is natural....But when things aren't right your body knows.....Maybe you should listen to your body and wait untill the time is right.
2007-03-12 18:18:32 · answer #9 · answered by loving U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not weired please i ask that you take your time and not rush through this after all this is not a game and once you do it their is no turning back, if you are beeing doubtfull than do not do it please dont because if you are having any insicurities you dont whant to do it , just take your time and really think about it if you whant some additional help or guidance contact me at futmexochoa@yahoo.com, this situation is always something that deserves to be taken slow.
2007-03-12 18:19:10 · answer #10 · answered by futmexochoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are afraid of what???
Pain?
Or some emotional?
if its pain then make sure you find someone gentleman not a sex monster.
and if its emotional again think three times before you have sex coz it should be someone special for first time..
as my gf says....
Cheers B
2007-03-12 18:16:52 · answer #11 · answered by crazy_boy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋