He's my best friend and I don't want to ruin our relationship. I really like him and have asked him out before, but it never really worked out. He would always break up with me or embarass me. I really like him and think I might love him, but I'm not sure if I really like him or if it's just a sign of a good friendship. I really don't have any friends so I don't want to ruin this friendship. Do you think it's love? Do you think I should try to get him again?
2007-03-12 10:43:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd say let it go for a little while. Just enjoy being friend, without the pressure and obligation that comes with romantic relationships. This will also give you more time to get to know each other, and to grow and mature together. When the time is right, You BOTH will know it, and it'll click. Don't rush it, especially if you've already been together and had it not work out before. Just take your time. Good luck!
2007-03-12 10:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by prplluva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a touchy thing, honestly Love that is true and lasts is very rare. I dont know your age but I think you might be under 21? I have five daughters and I encourage them to keep their good friends as friends, it never seems to work out when they try to cross the friend/lover line. A good friend is hard to find. I also want to encourage you to better yourself with education and hobbies and buy the things you dream of, a beautiful car, your own home, all the nice things you admire in a guy. Be that person you are attracted to and you will attract a great guy in the future, Just develop yourself first, so when that right person comes along you are mature and ready to enjoy that great life with them. There is a book I love that is called "In the Meantime" Its worth its weight in Gold.
Best regards, Life can be awesome but it is a lot of work. Get busy girl. Michele
2007-03-12 10:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by busty_bunny_in_lingerie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a classic, best friends in love. It happens all the time. In fact, I like my best friend thats a girl right now. If he did some bad stuff to u in the past, then watch out if you're willing to deal with him again. He might just do it worse next time, then you would be in trouble. If your gonna tell him u like him, be cautious about it and make sure he promises not to do anything. The best idea is to tell him how you feel, and tell him that if he doesnt like you back you wouldnt mind still being just friends with him. Otherwise, he might think you dont wanna be friends with him if he doesnt like u back.
2007-03-12 10:56:37 · answer #3 · answered by soccergod7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't think this is love.Because have you seen the show Lizzie McGuire.In the show there is Lizzie and Gordo.The secret of the show is they both like each other and it was reveled in the movie.That's how it is with you and the guy.I think you guys should stay friends.Because if he liked you back then he wants to wait.And if you come out and just say "Do you like me that would make him feel awkward.So you should stay friends and just see how everything would just go.And if it is meant to be it is meant to be.
2007-03-12 10:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man and a woman can't be just good friends there is going to be something going on in thier heads ! The sex thing always comes out in the end !
2007-03-12 10:47:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...coz he rejected you before....so if you really want to hook up with him....i think the only way it's gonna happen if he asks you out! things are just not meant to b sometimes
2007-03-12 10:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by deliah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are best friends, sit down with him and talk to him. Let him know where you stand and how you are feeling for him.
2007-03-12 10:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by Teresa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it! if going out with him would ruin your relationship as friends, that means that he's not a true friend.
2007-03-12 10:46:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i asked my best friend out and he said yes!! so you can just ask him out, if he still says no, just act like you forget about it and stilll be best friends, my friend did that
2007-03-12 10:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you love him but try like someone else then him
2007-03-12 10:48:45 · answer #10 · answered by love1011392 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋