Me and my ex broke up about 3 weeks ago and are trying to be friends. I want to get back with him and we've decided to spend some time together to see what happens. I know he is very confused about what he wants. How can I show him how much I love him and get him to remember the happy times we shared together, without being too foward. I'm not sure if I should be too romantic as we're in a wierd stage. Help!
2007-03-12 10:40:10 · 17 answers · asked by Darling_Bud 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
then tell him your true feeling towards him.....ofcourse be ready to take that risk....he might say no or yes to you?? who knows??
but if his willing to see you again...i'm pretty sure your right his confused....and plus he has some ego....girl wishing you a good luck...
also i rather make that move now that later...cuz like you mention it just 3wks ago....so go for it!!! beside in relationship one of you need to put that ego down for it to work....most likely it is us lady...who need to eat that pride not them.....
2007-03-12 10:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't know what he wants then don't bother.Generally if a guy says he's confused about what he wants it means he still wants to be with you and he also wants to live the single life,go out & find someone who's sure he wants you,and just stay mates with this guy if you have a lot in common.
2007-03-12 10:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by munki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a girl, he's a guy. Be friendly, but not romantic. Act like you are interested in having a good time now, but that you couldn't care less either way. Don't push it. Just be chill and act like you have your own life. Good luck.
2007-03-12 10:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that girl he fell for - the one who had a sparkle in her eye, who knew what she wanted from life, who had trouble cancelling the stuff out of her diary to make a date with him? If you want him back that's the girl you should be.
2007-03-12 10:54:30 · answer #4 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go take a cold shower then wake up have coffee are you that insecure that you are push your self on him slow down its not a wierd stage its a time out stage
2007-03-12 10:46:32 · answer #5 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just talk. you have to have more in common than just sex. Sex is for the NOW. Being best friends that can do lots of things together is the future.
2007-03-12 10:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself - afterall thats what he fell for the first time around, but don't be too pushy over the situation.
2007-03-12 11:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by luz2loz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start talking about things that made you laugh.... i wouldn't be to romantic, i would just try to have a good time w/ him. make him laugh, and maybe tell him you love him, and then apalogize for whatever happend and start over.
good luck:)
2007-03-12 10:45:04 · answer #8 · answered by aminallover29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A simple hug and nice words in his ear can make miracles, trust me.
2007-03-12 10:50:05 · answer #9 · answered by Luis Pachon 007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey hun do you remember how you use to act with him when you did go out with him??? before you broke up??? well then, BE YOURSELF!!!
2007-03-12 10:49:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋