She seems to have given up on me properly now.. I dont think she feels the same for me as i do for her anymore. But the problem is, to me she is THE one, i know it sounds all cheesy but it's how i feel. But now i dont think there's really any hope at all. Should i give up and let her go, or should i keep trying as hard as i can? Either could result in me losing her forever.. If she really has moved on then there's no turning back, but i dont want to feel im just letting her go. I have already tried but i dont know what to do now.. Can anyone offer any advice? Thanks.
2007-03-12 10:34:11 · 15 answers · asked by Epi V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am in the same situation as you are. I thought he was the one for me and still do even though he wronged me. There comes a point in time where you have to say I have these strong feelings for this person but they do not have the same feelings for me so I have to back down no matter how hard it may be for me to do. You have to look at it this way would you really want to be in a realtionship with someone who does not feel the same way for you as you feel about them? Then think about it if she doesn't feel the same way for me as I do for her then that just means there is someone else out there for you. I mean sometimes we think someone is perfect for us but we dismiss all their flaws in doing so (I'm not saying that is true in your case). Like the saying says If you love someone you will set them free. That's what you have to do set her free and wish her the best of luck and happiness in the future. You will find someone else. It might seem hard to imagine but when it happens it will be even more special. Just don't hold onto something that really isn't there. Good luck to you. I know how difficult it is but time heals the pain.
2007-03-12 10:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is an old saying" It is better to have love and lost than to never have loved at all".
Old saying number two " If you love her and she wants to to free, you will let her leave as it was not meant to be".
Both of these are cheesy but they have stood up to the test of time. If she wants to leave and is not happy, if you truly love her, you will let her go. If she comes back, then and only then will you know that it is true love.
Yes, you will lose her forever if you do not let her go as she will see this as an obsession on your part and will be frighten away if not anything.
My advice to you: "Let her go". Both of you will be better off in the long run.
2007-03-20 07:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by Randy P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if u want her so MUCH there is one thing u can do only trust me! be a gentleman ask her who is now with her life and say that u will be next to her if she ever needs u! dont push her if u need to exress ur feelings do it a nice way! try to help her where she needs help be close to her and i appropriate times show her ur true interest! but 1 be patient 2 dont push her 3 know that u have medium to small chances to succes! in general play the nice guy she might appriciate it finally good luck pal whatever u do!
2007-03-12 17:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by manosn1b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I know exactly how you feel. you could cry. that doesnt seem to help does it? it relieves some pent up frustration for a few hours, a few days. but the frustration of hoping someone will meet you halfway....it goes on as long as nothing changes. as long as the person you hope for doesnt communicate with you the way you hope.
Im where youre at, kiddo. You can live with hope alone or make a decision to give up your dream. While you are deciding...distract yourself with hobbies, work, friends and family. peace
2007-03-12 17:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her! its the only way to know for sure. even if she acts a bit distant or pissed off....she could still be in luv with u. If u KNOW she's THE ONE.... tell her! and tell her u want an honest answer.... anyone deserves at least that. usually its girls who are feeling this way.... so i commend u for having true feelings and not letting them go! ;)
2007-03-12 18:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by Kimber Gem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She more than likely is NOT THE ONE 4 U... if she was you wouldnt be posting this...if she wants to move on..do it before any kids are involved... plllllllllleaseeeeeeeeeee
2007-03-20 17:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's worth it, keep trying. But if she's really done with you, then you have to respect that and move on. No one likes a psycho. Don't be THAT guy.
2007-03-20 00:14:15 · answer #7 · answered by THATgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes losing interest you have to move on because she is, its hard...VERY ive experienced a broken heart but staying with her is just not getting you anywhere, she can't stay in something shes not happy in o w/e, you will find it hard but youll get over it trust me broken hearts dont mend in days they take months! shes obviously not the 1
2007-03-12 17:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by ...x...sxy ting...x... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can try but it may be a waste of time. If she's told you it's over, then she will probably stick to that. Maybe it's time to move on.
2007-03-12 17:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by Jewel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should gave her space to let her think. if you guys are meant to be no matter what happen you'll be together and if it wasn't meant to be no matter what you do it won't work. it take two hand to clap not only your.
2007-03-20 16:47:41 · answer #10 · answered by CaStLe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋