Where I use to live our neighbors son as a friend that I had a crush for the longest time. Now that house where I use to live someone that I know lives there. The bad thing is that every time we see each other is only Hi & bye: ( its always in the car. But theirs a look that I cant explanie everytime I see him I get so nervous. Now That I don’t live there anymore I just stop by and hopeing that maybe I’ll be able to see him but I found out that he works nights. I K.I.T with my our neighbors cousin I talk to him on myspace lol. But I just cant tell him I been in love with your cousins friend all this time I need to find out if he has a girlfriend its been 6yrs or more. What can I do? I really like him so MUCH please tell me what I should do?
2007-03-12 10:33:34 · 10 answers · asked by verorocks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please stop being a silly chick for once in your life and grow a pair. If you like the guy just let him know. If he's not interested, then you can get on with your life. What's so hard about that?
2007-03-12 10:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now , you use the word love here and I wonder why. You cant possible love him, you dont know him at all. So lets dipsell that and say that youre smitten. Which can happen in 5 minutes.
The only real way to know is to ask him, men love assertive women. If you were just walk right up to him and tell him " Hey I think you are very good looking and would like to ask you out" you can paraphrase. If he has a girlfriend he will say so, if he not internested he will give you an excuse.
At least then you will know.
BTW you are 23, dont fall in love so early in life, too much good stuff out there to see and do.
2007-03-12 17:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by coolair74 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like if he liked you, he had six years to make a move. All is probably lost right now as it stands bc he doesn't see you in that way. Let him know that it's an option. Call him/email him and say, "Hey, Since I moved away I've missed seeing you around. We should hang out sometime." Let him set the time and date and go for the asking, if he doesn't, I doubt he likes you and you should move on.
2007-03-12 17:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell his cousin you've been in love for six years. Tell him just that you think his cousin's cute and does he know if he's taken. Pass on your number. Wait for a call. After two weeks if no call - move on.
2007-03-12 17:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you really need to tell him how you feel
if your in love with this guy and he doesent even know how you feel
it could be the start of somthing special just tell him
2007-03-12 17:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jade L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say....u tell him how u feel...it hurts more losing someone u had den losing someone u never had...nd even if he does'nt feel da same way you'll end up feeling better for telling him.
2007-03-12 17:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by SpEciAL sOnRisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him and telling him how you feel. honestly it's the 21st century grow a back bone
2007-03-12 17:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all you can do is just talk to him tell him how you feel.and stop myspacing him girl get his number and conversate
2007-03-12 17:40:28 · answer #8 · answered by Nysheba B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the chance, and find out, even if you have to knock on his door ank ask him,
2007-03-12 17:38:26 · answer #9 · answered by ThomasL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what can happen?
2007-03-12 17:37:18 · answer #10 · answered by robert s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋