i really like this guy, he rarely talks to me, but when he does, he is friendly. so, what do i do? he thinks im a freak cause i wuz obsessed w/ him last year. help me!!!!!!
2007-03-12 10:28:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know many people are going to tell you not to talk to him.Just to ditch him b/c he thinks your a freak and that's just being a plain jerk. But ya know there's only one person that cause him to think that and that was you. Yes us women do get very obsessed over guys but men get just as obessed as us! The best thing to actual do is to talk to him more often just maybe say hey or ask him how is day is going. Just small talk. Slowly becoming friends with him. And of course you can still like him just keep in the back of your head though that the only thing you two are are just friends! No more!!!!! And you know after awhile of talking to him maybe one day just ask him to hang out maybe ask some of your friends to come along and say he can bring some of his.
Now if you start trying to make small talk with him and it just seems like he isn't making an effort or even trying to get to know you then yeah quit talking to him. But you've gotta try to become his friend. Gain his trust and most importantly get out of his mind that your an obssive compulsive freak chick that likes him. Cause even though I really don't know you I truely believe your not. That your down to earth(maybe) and just like a guy. You know I'm gonna tell you what I tell many people on here and many of my friends. Asking people what to do is good but there only one person that can decide for themselves on what to do and what is right to do is YOU!!! Your the only one that knows.
And another piece of advice.....
"Just follow your heart, it knows what you want and what's right!"
Heard that from one of my best friends and I use that everyday hasn't let me down yet!But whatever you decide I say good luck to you and listen and pay attention around you
Love ya!
2007-03-12 10:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by Gretchen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he thinks of you as a freak, then don't talk to him. He's a jerk. Girls get obsessed, so what? If he's friendly, decide with your better judgement if it's legit. Be careful, but it sounds like you should spend your feelings on someone worth your time darling.<3
2007-03-12 17:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by Cieeeee <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there are lots of men looking for a woman like you . I wish a woman would be obsessed with me . I need to know something about you I mean how much would you do for this guy how far would you go for him would you do anything ?
2007-03-12 17:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you obsessed? Why don't you just ask him out and you should know if he is interested in you or not. Besides the worst thing he could say is no and really its best to find out now then be rejected in a bigger way.
2007-03-12 17:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't stare really dreamy eyed and don't drool. I don't know why he would think you are a freak. Just be friendly back.
2007-03-12 17:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by Rissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about your past. worry about the present and future.show him who you are this year ,because every one grows up and have different personalities each year.so show him that you not a freak,show him your a really cool girl to know.
2007-03-12 17:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
play it cool. dont act like you are so into him. he needs time to want you back. guys like girls that are hard to get. its hard trust me but it will be worth it
2007-03-12 17:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by bubbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋