me and her are cool but she's alwayz telling me about what she and him used to do like she's tryin to get me upset...i haven't really said anything but i'm tired of hearing about his previous sex life with her..and then whenever me and him are trying to be alone..she always show up..like me and him were at my apartment watchin a movie...and then she busts right through the door and comes an joins us on the couch..i ask her how'd she get in..and she said my roomate gave her a spare key...and its really weird how she walked in just when we were kissin'...either she's stalkin me..or she's stalkin me... i don't know how to get rid of her...or tell her how annoying she's getting..my boyfriend has told me he feels the same way, but he hates being around her alone cause he says it feels odd...wat the heck do i do???
2007-03-12 10:26:12 · 9 answers · asked by Jessicca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her "Do you mind? We are in the middle of a little somthin' somthin' here." With people like that the only thing to do IMO is to tell them straight up in the face to F*** off. And it seems to me it's the only probable way that would work on that girl.
2007-03-12 10:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by Col 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and your boyfriend should talk to her together. He should tell her that he thinks she is a nice person, but he is no longer interested in her as more than a friend and he would appreciate it if she respected his space and his privacy. You should tell her that you have no problem with being her friend, but she has kind of crossed the line right now and you don't want it to create any problems. Be polite, but forceful. If she doesn't stop- get a restraining order! And good luck!
2007-03-12 10:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by Daisy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she fancies him if she keeps going wherever you guys are going she is probably you guys aren't getting up to anything. Tell her that you would like some privacy with him and you don't want her following you guys about all the time if she wouldn't mind
2007-03-12 10:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by Jade L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No ma'am you need to check her. Let her know its not cool. She knows it and you know she probably IS doing it on purpose. You need to let her know that shes got to go. And you should really talk with your roomate about giving out spare keys to people without your concent.
2007-03-12 10:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by TheLight 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make him stand up and tell her. Chances are he's telling you he doesn't want her but she's pressuring because he's not making it clear to her. You telling her wont do any good you'll just be the annoying girlfriend . . . make him tell her.
2007-03-12 10:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just blurt it out and say ur annoying and if she doesn't talk to u ever again welll goood for u shes just jealous and if dshe was ur real friend she wouldn't do this to u
2007-03-12 10:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by Brenda Y 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a restaning order on her
2007-03-12 10:29:31 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it worth it to you to always be wondering and compared? I would say kick him to the curb and find someone else.
2007-03-12 10:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My question is, why are you still cool with her?
And why are you letting him let this go on?
2007-03-12 10:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋