Let’s say you are engaged to be married and you have been with your fiancé since college. Your best friend started dating a buddy of your fiancés from college 6 months ago. They went on a few dates but it quickly ended because you interfered and started seeing the guy. Your best friend never slept with him and didn’t seem that interested. Fast forward to a week before your wedding: You have still been cheating with this other guy, who is now part of the wedding party and your prego. When you go to break off the wedding, your fiancé tells you he is not ready to get married, you quickly agree and leave. You decide to come clean to your best friend and confess everything. She gets a little pissed but gets over it. As your sitting on her couch, you see your fiancés watch on the table. You ask her wassup. She shrugs. You get up & start looking in the closets & under the bed, before she can stop you, you open the closet door in the bedroom & find your fiancé crouched down in his boxers!
2007-03-12 10:21:52 · 1 answers · asked by SexyMommy2B 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just so we are clear, the women in this little story is NOT me. I am reading a book and this happened in the first chapter and I was curious to see what others thought about the situation.
2007-03-13 05:42:41 · update #1
With that much guilt, nobody has the right to pass judgement.
Congratulate the (ex) fiancé on how quickly he moved on. Hug the best friend, and tell her you hope she'll be happy.
Then go see the man who fathered your child. Does he know? Is he a decent guy? Will he stand by you? Do you want to marry him? Will the sex be as exciting, now the "thrill" of cheating on your fiancé is gone?
About the only one of these you can quickly find the answer to is the one about the sex.
2007-03-12 21:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋